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Post by SneydGreenStokie on Sept 15, 2017 21:07:25 GMT
His Mrs is 6 months pregnant as well FFS Kinda makes you think how do you bring yourself to either scare your family like that, and your Mrs who's pregnant with your child if he turns up OK... and if it turns out worse then it's even more horrific. Yes mental health plays a part here but a fucking baby is in the oven not to mention his other 3 kids. Terrible situation from every angle. You thinking rationally here. But someone suffering from depression doesn't think rationally. SGS
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Post by crapslinger on Sept 15, 2017 21:31:02 GMT
Have they looked on the hard shoulder? What a fucking sick insensitive twat you are, you really do need to take a long hard look at yourself if you think that is funny you should seek help urgently.
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Post by mrred on Sept 15, 2017 21:31:14 GMT
His Mrs is 6 months pregnant as well FFS Kinda makes you think how do you bring yourself to either scare your family like that, and your Mrs who's pregnant with your child if he turns up OK... and if it turns out worse then it's even more horrific. Yes mental health plays a part here but a fucking baby is in the oven not to mention his other 3 kids. Terrible situation from every angle. You thinking rationally here. But someone suffering from depression doesn't think rationally. SGS Was going to say the same thing. Don't presume he's of sound, rational thought when he's turning his back on his family. Depression is fucking dreadful. I hope he gets the help he needs.
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Post by swampySCFC on Sept 15, 2017 21:39:55 GMT
We all have a struggle day to day for one reason or another. I don't get his problem?
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Post by Gifton on Sept 15, 2017 21:45:22 GMT
We all have a struggle day to day for one reason or another. I don't get his problem? Eh?
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Post by crapslinger on Sept 15, 2017 21:56:27 GMT
We all have a struggle day to day for one reason or another. I don't get his problem? Day to day WTF it is hour to hour depression is for life sadly, most of us struggle which is part of life ! depression is a daily battle which has to be fought every minute of every day do your research or even speak to someone who lives with depression it might enlighten you.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 15, 2017 22:08:30 GMT
We all have a struggle day to day for one reason or another. I don't get his problem? A lot of people don't "get it" as they have never experienced it. But they have empathy when listening to the millions of people around the world who clearly suffer the effects of mental illness......
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Post by numpty40 on Sept 15, 2017 22:12:11 GMT
Have they looked on the hard shoulder? You total cunt, I hope you never find yourself in the same situation Carlisle is in. Easy posting things like that when it's not under your own name isn't it. Similar things are said in workplaces and pubs, yes it's inappropriate and wrong but for fucks sake the internet does produce some precious people.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 16, 2017 3:00:02 GMT
Have they looked on the hard shoulder? Have a good very long hard think about yourself. Then have a word with yourself. Then call yourself a cunt.
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Post by NG4POTTERS on Sept 16, 2017 4:24:08 GMT
Some of the comments just cement the fact of how misunderstood depression still is. There is a difference from feeling a bit down about stuff to actually suffering with an illness. I live with someone who has suffered this torment and still continues to. Its not a tap. You can't turn it on and off.
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Post by basingstokie on Sept 16, 2017 5:56:30 GMT
I hope he gets found safe and well and gets the help he so obviously needs. The brain is a strange strange thing which makes illness of it all the scarier. Incidentally, on BBC they make no mention of his playing for Stoke, despite his being captain (if I remember correctly) Think you're confusing him with Clive Clarke dude! Face/palm/splat. Ah well, still hope he is found safe and well
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Post by mrred on Sept 16, 2017 8:21:08 GMT
We all have a struggle day to day for one reason or another. I don't get his problem? Probably best not to comment then if you have no understanding or apathy. He's clearly very ill, not just pissed off because his Mrs didn't put the bins out.
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Post by Edward Tattsyrup on Sept 16, 2017 12:15:15 GMT
We all have a struggle day to day for one reason or another. I don't get his problem?
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Post by Deleted on Sept 16, 2017 12:21:09 GMT
Have they looked on the hard shoulder? Have a good very long hard think about yourself. Then have a word with yourself. Then call yourself a cunt. I've thought long and hard about what he said. Spot on, he's a cunt.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 16, 2017 12:44:40 GMT
We all have a struggle day to day for one reason or another. I don't get his problem? You need educating then swampy, i feel sorry you mate
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Post by Deleted on Sept 16, 2017 12:45:24 GMT
We all have a struggle day to day for one reason or another. I don't get his problem? A lot of people don't "get it" as they have never experienced it. But they have empathy when listening to the millions of people around the world who clearly suffer the effects of mental illness...... Well said Prestwich
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Post by Deleted on Sept 16, 2017 12:50:06 GMT
You thinking rationally here. But someone suffering from depression doesn't think rationally. SGS Was going to say the same thing. Don't presume he's of sound, rational thought when he's turning his back on his family. Depression is fucking dreadful. I hope he gets the help he needs. I suffer fom OCD and mild mental health issues Luckily my wife is a well adjusted person who supports me greatly, even then though she has to remind me, the sufferer, that that certain people we see or hear about are not acting/thinking rationally and as i say i am a sufferer so its not easy. A couple of comments on here though are unacceptable.
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Post by Roy Cropper on Sept 16, 2017 13:02:26 GMT
Classic thread of people who have experienced depression and the lucky ones who've not. To be fair its not something you can understand easily without dealing with it yourself. As the great Mike Skinner says:
"I hope you understand me I ain't no preaching fucker and I ain't no do-goody-goody either This is about when shit goes pear-shaped And if you aren't, or never have been at rock bottom Then good luck to you in the big wide world But remember that one day, shit might just start crumbling Your bird might fuck off or you might lose your job It's when that happens that what I'm talking about Will feel much more important to you So if you ain't feeling it Just be thankful that things are cool in your world Respect to BC Positivity"
Good luck Clarke.
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Post by crouchpotato1 on Sept 16, 2017 17:39:04 GMT
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Post by aixpotter on Sept 16, 2017 19:14:38 GMT
Why can't I see any of your posts?
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Post by crouchpotato1 on Sept 16, 2017 19:17:45 GMT
Why can't I see any of your posts? Not a clue mate,have you blocked me😄
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Post by aixpotter on Sept 16, 2017 19:22:06 GMT
Why can't I see any of your posts? Not a clue mate,have you blocked me😄 Certainly not! Anybody any ideas?
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Post by Gifton on Sept 16, 2017 21:24:01 GMT
Not a clue mate,have you blocked me😄 Certainly not! Anybody any ideas? He posted a link. If your internet/smartphone is running really slow it may not be loading.
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Post by aixpotter on Sept 17, 2017 16:25:32 GMT
Certainly not! Anybody any ideas? He posted a link. If your internet/smartphone is running really slow it may not be loading. Thank you. Apologies for the delayed reply, I think the internet in France is being slow.
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Post by Onneravineet on Sept 17, 2017 23:32:10 GMT
Imagine the one person that you rely on to see things for what they are, you, your inner self, just one day starts telling you nothing. You doubt yourself. Words from others don't mean the same as the inner you tells you those words are rot and just not true. The anger and loneliness has no end because as you're telling yourself you're worthless you start to question where you are in the world. Why are you needed? You're a cunt. You're better off dead. Then you're inner self finally agrees with you.
It's fucked up when you can't even rely on yourself. Anyone with depression needs to simply know that they're sick and need help. It isn't easy to do when yourself is telling you to fuck the world.
People lose family members to this shit every single day. Plenty of people don't get it. Then you lose someone that was close to you and you don't get it even more. You just know that something was wrong and hate the fact you never had the chance to get it.
Anyone with depression has my sympathy and thoughts. Don't be pissed off by those that don't get it. Just hope they never have to.
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Post by darksideofthemoon on Sept 18, 2017 0:36:41 GMT
Imagine the one person that you rely on to see things for what they are, you, your inner self, just one day starts telling you nothing. You doubt yourself. Words from others don't mean the same as the inner you tells you those words are rot and just not true. The anger and loneliness has no end because as you're telling yourself you're worthless you start to question where you are in the world. Why are you needed? You're a cunt. You're better off dead. Then you're inner self finally agrees with you.
It's fucked up when you can't even rely on yourself. Anyone with depression needs to simply know that they're sick and need help. It isn't easy to do when yourself is telling you to fuck the world. People lose family members to this shit every single day. Plenty of people don't get it. Then you lose someone that was close to you and you don't get it even more. You just know that something was wrong and hate the fact you never had the chance to get it. Anyone with depression has my sympathy and thoughts. Don't be pissed off by those that don't get it. Just hope they never have to.
Having recently lost my son to suicide as a result of depression, this resonated with me. At 30 years old, he was the youngest of my three 'kids' and he had been a problem child from a young age.
Diagnosed with ADHD as a teenager, but basically treated like a naughty boy throughout his school life, he'd been in and out of trouble with the Police, and was unable to hold down a job permanently. At one time or another, he'd spoken with psychologists and psychiatrists, but he felt that they didn't really understand him, and simply wanted to medicate his problem.
He'd flirted with drugs, alcohol and gambling as short term 'fixes' but ultimately nothing could help him out of the deep hole that his depression had thrown him in, and obviously one day, it all got too much for him. His Mum and I, and his sisters can take little solace from the fact the we did everything we could to help him; but it's impossible to know what he went through on a daily basis...what demons he faced
Until something like this touches you, it is so very difficult to comprehend.
All I can say is, I hope it never happens to you.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 18, 2017 1:38:21 GMT
Imagine the one person that you rely on to see things for what they are, you, your inner self, just one day starts telling you nothing. You doubt yourself. Words from others don't mean the same as the inner you tells you those words are rot and just not true. The anger and loneliness has no end because as you're telling yourself you're worthless you start to question where you are in the world. Why are you needed? You're a cunt. You're better off dead. Then you're inner self finally agrees with you.
It's fucked up when you can't even rely on yourself. Anyone with depression needs to simply know that they're sick and need help. It isn't easy to do when yourself is telling you to fuck the world. People lose family members to this shit every single day. Plenty of people don't get it. Then you lose someone that was close to you and you don't get it even more. You just know that something was wrong and hate the fact you never had the chance to get it. Anyone with depression has my sympathy and thoughts. Don't be pissed off by those that don't get it. Just hope they never have to.
Having recently lost my son to suicide as a result of depression, this resonated with me. At 30 years old, he was the youngest of my three 'kids' and he had been a problem child from a young age.
Diagnosed with ADHD as a teenager, but basically treated like a naughty boy throughout his school life, he'd been in and out of trouble with the Police, and was unable to hold down a job permanently. At one time or another, he'd spoken with psychologists and psychiatrists, but he felt that they didn't really understand him, and simply wanted to medicate his problem.
He'd flirted with drugs, alcohol and gambling as short term 'fixes' but ultimately nothing could help him out of the deep hole that his depression had thrown him in, and obviously one day, it all got too much for him. His Mum and I, and his sisters can take little solace from the fact the we did everything we could to help him; but it's impossible to know what he went through on a daily basis...what demons he faced
Until something like this touches you, it is so very difficult to comprehend.
All I can say is, I hope it never happens to you. Bexhillpotter / notts1 take time to read this........
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Post by Deleted on Sept 18, 2017 3:06:24 GMT
Depression is utter darkness. Loneliness. Emptiness. Hollowness. Death. A tunnel of despair. The end of everything. Pray that you escape it. Many don't.
There's a rolling occasional thread on the EE board. Don't suffer alone.
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Post by ukcstokie on Sept 18, 2017 12:39:32 GMT
Last year I had a stroke. It wasn't my fault, it was something I'd had since a kid I understand. Since then I have suffered from depression for the first time ever. For those who's lack of compassion for people with depression - well I hope you don't face the same problems.
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Post by Northy on Sept 18, 2017 13:14:46 GMT
Imagine the one person that you rely on to see things for what they are, you, your inner self, just one day starts telling you nothing. You doubt yourself. Words from others don't mean the same as the inner you tells you those words are rot and just not true. The anger and loneliness has no end because as you're telling yourself you're worthless you start to question where you are in the world. Why are you needed? You're a cunt. You're better off dead. Then you're inner self finally agrees with you.
It's fucked up when you can't even rely on yourself. Anyone with depression needs to simply know that they're sick and need help. It isn't easy to do when yourself is telling you to fuck the world. People lose family members to this shit every single day. Plenty of people don't get it. Then you lose someone that was close to you and you don't get it even more. You just know that something was wrong and hate the fact you never had the chance to get it. Anyone with depression has my sympathy and thoughts. Don't be pissed off by those that don't get it. Just hope they never have to.
Having recently lost my son to suicide as a result of depression, this resonated with me. At 30 years old, he was the youngest of my three 'kids' and he had been a problem child from a young age.
Diagnosed with ADHD as a teenager, but basically treated like a naughty boy throughout his school life, he'd been in and out of trouble with the Police, and was unable to hold down a job permanently. At one time or another, he'd spoken with psychologists and psychiatrists, but he felt that they didn't really understand him, and simply wanted to medicate his problem.
He'd flirted with drugs, alcohol and gambling as short term 'fixes' but ultimately nothing could help him out of the deep hole that his depression had thrown him in, and obviously one day, it all got too much for him. His Mum and I, and his sisters can take little solace from the fact the we did everything we could to help him; but it's impossible to know what he went through on a daily basis...what demons he faced
Until something like this touches you, it is so very difficult to comprehend.
All I can say is, I hope it never happens to you. Well done for saying this, it's hard to understand for some who think people should just 'snap out of it'. A bloke at our running club his son took his own life a few weeks ago, no prior indications, he'd been on holiday with a group of people and his girlfriend 2 weeks before, and said 'life doesn't get better than this' I've seen it happen to somebody, and it could be one thing that triggers it, tips the balance the wrong way and they go so dark and deep, it's hard to drag them out of it.
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