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Post by Deleted on May 2, 2017 22:16:09 GMT
Just revisiting this thread after hearing about Aaron Lennon. I couldn't believe the things I posted at the start of the thread, but I was in a dark place. Im much more positive at the moment and I've got some of my confidence back. My son is 3 now and growing up to be a little star, he is the main reason I keep going. Just hope I stay positive for a while! That's good to read .....keep it going mate It does get better believe me
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Post by Skankmonkey on Jun 9, 2017 13:57:20 GMT
In case Theresa pops by.
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Post by trickydicky73 on Jun 9, 2017 14:04:48 GMT
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Post by Deleted on Jun 9, 2017 14:06:16 GMT
Or people in a state of utter despair that so many voters chose a terrorist hugger.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 9, 2017 14:45:52 GMT
Or people in a state of utter despair that so many voters chose a terrorist hugger. Yes, like this one:-
1979. That's Menachem Begin who was head of the Irgun at the time of the bombing of the King David Hotel. The death toll consisted of 41 Arabs, 28 British citizens, 17 Palestinian Jews, 2 Armenians, 1 Russian, 1 Greek and 1 Egyptian. 46 people were injured.
LINK
Both are scum. Hung parliament. Hopefully a noose is involved. Politics depresses me because of the sheer futility of putting any faith in this collective of rats, liars, and idiots.
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Post by Skankmonkey on Jun 10, 2017 11:09:03 GMT
Both are scum. Hung parliament. Hopefully a noose is involved. Politics depresses me because of the sheer futility of putting any faith in this collective of rats, liars, and idiots. Sorry mate. My post was knee jerk and ill-considered with no place on this thread. I've deleted it. My apologies.
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Post by borat on Jun 25, 2017 7:53:11 GMT
Hate bringing up this thread to be honest but just had to get this off my chest. Had a chat with the missus last night about my past depression and some days even now. She says stop feeling bloody sorry myself! I've told her this about thousand times, DEPRESSION IS A CHEMICAL ILLNESS NOT CAUSE I'M FEELING SORRY FOR MYSELF AHHHHHH.
Hey ho after 6 years she's not going understand it lol. I've got to laugh though otherwise I'd bloody cry haha. Had a dreadful day yesterday but feel ok today 😆
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Post by kidcrewbob on Jun 25, 2017 9:18:04 GMT
Hate bringing up this thread to be honest but just had to get this off my chest. Had a chat with the missus last night about my past depression and some days even now. She says stop feeling bloody sorry myself! I've told her this about thousand times, DEPRESSION IS A CHEMICAL ILLNESS NOT CAUSE I'M FEELING SORRY FOR MYSELF AHHHHHH. Hey ho after 6 years she's not going understand it lol. I've got to laugh though otherwise I'd bloody cry haha. Had a dreadful day yesterday but feel ok today 😆 You are not alone my friend - some folk just don't get it and think anyone sufferimg just needs a good shake..........if it helps you to come on here and vent then keep on doing it - that's why the thread was started.....hope you have a better day today.......
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Post by jimigoodwinsbeard on Jul 13, 2017 9:11:17 GMT
The referral went as i thought, the counsellor told my wife it was like pulling teeth to get him to talk. He did say that 2 events have upset him, finding out his grandad died on facebook (3mths after the event) and his cousin being sectioned for a night and the aftermath of the family all being upset. Counsellor asked him numerous questions, all "dunno" answers, he said he didnt understand some of the questions he was asking? He would as he is an intelligent lad! Counsellor said he has no immediate concerns, going again in couple weeks. My wife says she has to go down the tough love route? Counsellor asked what kept him going, dunno same reply. Wife asked hom after and he said his mates at school and when he gets home chatting on socoal media to them. Why not tell the counsellor then? We askes him what he expected...'doctor tells me i've got depression and give me some pills'. Its a start at least. Sounds very familiar hope you have similar results as we got and you can all move on It gets better for my stepson....after his dad only telling him about his grandad dying 4mths after his funeral.....he has been banging on all year about taking him to florida for a month to watch spurs friendly etc etc, banging on about giving him 5k for his 16th, then calling him a selfish c@nt via txt because stepson removed his name from a fb post (on his dads profile with stepson tagged in)showing the 5k bank balance. My stepson is typical teenager who untags loads of stuff that we tag him in as its uncool..anyway, I digress....he txt us yesterday from florida (hes been there a week)...dad wants me to come home 'i'm doing his head in', i've only got 200dollars and dad wont give me any money and has told me to sort my own flight and everything'.....so 2hrs messaging him via fbook, we booked him flight and hes got to sort taxi from hotel today....i am absolutely fookin fuming!!!!
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Post by muglump on Jul 13, 2017 9:35:18 GMT
Depression is ill named really. It has nothing to do with misery, it is a deep nothing. You feel neither happy nor sad and that's why people try to fill that nothing with booze, drugs, compulsive behaviour etc. I had a doctor tell me recently that depression is 'just anxiety' ignorant twat
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Post by Deleted on Jul 13, 2017 10:21:36 GMT
Depression is ill named really. It has nothing to do with misery, it is a deep nothing. You feel neither happy nor sad and that's why people try to fill that nothing with booze, drugs, compulsive behaviour etc. I had a doctor tell me recently that depression is 'just anxiety' ignorant twat Well that Doctor is a fool ....there is no doubt that anxiety can be part of depression but depression is a complex condition that entails so many other things that affect people in different ways, there is no nailed on cause such as " anxiety " .
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Post by muglump on Jul 13, 2017 10:28:46 GMT
Depression is ill named really. It has nothing to do with misery, it is a deep nothing. You feel neither happy nor sad and that's why people try to fill that nothing with booze, drugs, compulsive behaviour etc. I had a doctor tell me recently that depression is 'just anxiety' ignorant twat Well that Doctor is a fool ....there is no doubt that anxiety can be part of depression but depression is a complex condition that entails so many other things that affect people in different ways, there is no nailed on cause such as " anxiety " . More than a fool mate, in his position he's downright bloody criminal and needs chucking out of a high window
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Post by mattador78 on Jul 13, 2017 11:28:57 GMT
Sounds very familiar hope you have similar results as we got and you can all move on It gets better for my stepson....after his dad only telling him about his grandad dying 4mths after his funeral.....he has been banging on all year about taking him to florida for a month to watch spurs friendly etc etc, banging on about giving him 5k for his 16th, then calling him a selfish c@nt via txt because stepson removed his name from a fb post (on his dads profile with stepson tagged in)showing the 5k bank balance. My stepson is typical teenager who untags loads of stuff that we tag him in as its uncool..anyway, I digress....he txt us yesterday from florida (hes been there a week)...dad wants me to come home 'i'm doing his head in', i've only got 200dollars and dad wont give me any money and has told me to sort my own flight and everything'.....so 2hrs messaging him via fbook, we booked him flight and hes got to sort taxi from hotel today....i am absolutely fookin fuming!!!! What a cock his father sounds I'd call you his dad mate as you seem to care more for the lad than that fuck monkey who sired him.
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Post by jimigoodwinsbeard on Jul 13, 2017 12:59:23 GMT
It gets better for my stepson....after his dad only telling him about his grandad dying 4mths after his funeral.....he has been banging on all year about taking him to florida for a month to watch spurs friendly etc etc, banging on about giving him 5k for his 16th, then calling him a selfish c@nt via txt because stepson removed his name from a fb post (on his dads profile with stepson tagged in)showing the 5k bank balance. My stepson is typical teenager who untags loads of stuff that we tag him in as its uncool..anyway, I digress....he txt us yesterday from florida (hes been there a week)...dad wants me to come home 'i'm doing his head in', i've only got 200dollars and dad wont give me any money and has told me to sort my own flight and everything'.....so 2hrs messaging him via fbook, we booked him flight and hes got to sort taxi from hotel today....i am absolutely fookin fuming!!!! What a cock his father sounds I'd call you his dad mate as you seem to care more for the lad than that fuck monkey who sired him. His dad is ill. But all the mental health assessments have said he was fine (my wife had to get a restraining order out against him) He obviously isnt if he can do this to his son.
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Post by flea79 on Jul 13, 2017 13:22:29 GMT
finally reached out recently after a lot of begging from the woman, many unresolved issues relating to my adoption have all piled up over the last 12 months and made me a pretty terrifying person at times, to the point I have had to leave situations at times for fear of the violence that I might start
I can recommend the Samaritans to anybody even if just a quick call for a chat and somebody to listen
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Post by mattador78 on Jul 13, 2017 13:27:27 GMT
What a cock his father sounds I'd call you his dad mate as you seem to care more for the lad than that fuck monkey who sired him. His dad is ill. But all the mental health assessments have said he was fine (my wife had to get a restraining order out against him) He obviously isnt if he can do this to his son. Keep fighting the good fight mate your heads screwed on as your talking about it that's what helps the most I think
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 19, 2017 16:23:28 GMT
Worked with this very talented lad 35 years ago , he jumped under a train on Monday leaving a wife and 3 daughters. Incredibly sad
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Post by Billybigbollox on Jul 19, 2017 17:24:09 GMT
Worked with this very talented lad 35 years ago , he jumped under a train on Monday leaving a wife and 3 daughters. Incredibly sad I saw a bloke who'd jumped under a train about 2 years ago Harry. They must be fucking tormented to do something like that. It ain't a cry for help that's for sure.
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 19, 2017 17:42:25 GMT
Worked with this very talented lad 35 years ago , he jumped under a train on Monday leaving a wife and 3 daughters. Incredibly sad I saw a bloke who'd jumped under a train about 2 years ago Harry. They must be fucking tormented to do something like that. It ain't a cry for help that's for sure. Strange thing is Jeremy was heavily involved in a suicide charity , holding fundraisers etc . I think his dad or brother killed himself as well many years ago .
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2017 17:56:04 GMT
I go through some very dark periods. It is not nice, I can tell you! My father was the same!
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Post by Billybigbollox on Jul 19, 2017 17:59:46 GMT
I saw a bloke who'd jumped under a train about 2 years ago Harry. They must be fucking tormented to do something like that. It ain't a cry for help that's for sure. Strange thing is Jeremy was heavily involved in a suicide charity , holding fundraisers etc . I think his dad or brother killed himself as well many years ago . Yes that is odd. Almost like it's familial. . I knew a train driver who had 2 people commit suicide under trains he was driving. One of them lived in his village. He waited for the train to come through the station and just leant forward taking the top of his head off. Gruesome but quick.
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 19, 2017 18:03:45 GMT
Strange thing is Jeremy was heavily involved in a suicide charity , holding fundraisers etc . I think his dad or brother killed himself as well many years ago . Yes that is odd. Almost like it's familial. . I knew a train driver who had 2 people commit suicide under trains he was driving. One of them lived in his village. He waited for the train to come through the station and just leant forward taking the top of his head off. Gruesome but quick. If I was of a mind to do that I'm sure a bottle of aspirins in a travel lodge would be better
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Post by Billybigbollox on Jul 19, 2017 18:10:57 GMT
Yes that is odd. Almost like it's familial. . I knew a train driver who had 2 people commit suicide under trains he was driving. One of them lived in his village. He waited for the train to come through the station and just leant forward taking the top of his head off. Gruesome but quick. If I was of a mind to do that I'm sure a bottle of aspirins in a travel lodge would be better Not sure about that Harry. Aspirin causes gastric bleeding which is not pleasant. A bloke I was at school with committed suicide last year by overdosing on barbiturates and whizz. A mutual friend found him and told me that he had bled out from gastric perforation. He said it was like a scene from a horror movie with blood everywhere.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2017 18:11:20 GMT
Yes that is odd. Almost like it's familial. . I knew a train driver who had 2 people commit suicide under trains he was driving. One of them lived in his village. He waited for the train to come through the station and just leant forward taking the top of his head off. Gruesome but quick. If I was of a mind to do that I'm sure a bottle of aspirins in a travel lodge would be better I'll book you in
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 19, 2017 18:31:58 GMT
If I was of a mind to do that I'm sure a bottle of aspirins in a travel lodge would be better Not sure about that Harry. Aspirin causes gastric bleeding which is not pleasant. A bloke I was at school with committed suicide last year by overdosing on barbiturates and whizz. A mutual friend found him and told me that he had bled out from gastric perforation. He said it was like a scene from a horror movie with blood everywhere. Ok I guess I need to do my homework billy
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2017 18:41:17 GMT
Not sure about that Harry. Aspirin causes gastric bleeding which is not pleasant. A bloke I was at school with committed suicide last year by overdosing on barbiturates and whizz. A mutual friend found him and told me that he had bled out from gastric perforation. He said it was like a scene from a horror movie with blood everywhere. Ok I guess I need to do my homework billy I'll help you mate
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Post by Deleted on Jul 19, 2017 18:42:50 GMT
If I was of a mind to do that I'm sure a bottle of aspirins in a travel lodge would be better Not sure about that Harry. Aspirin causes gastric bleeding which is not pleasant. A bloke I was at school with committed suicide last year by overdosing on barbiturates and whizz. A mutual friend found him and told me that he had bled out from gastric perforation. He said it was like a scene from a horror movie with blood everywhere. Fuck sake billy, dunner tell him
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 19, 2017 18:45:27 GMT
Ok I guess I need to do my homework billy I'll help you mate You're a pal , thanks Mary
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 19, 2017 18:48:22 GMT
I go through some very dark periods. It is not nice, I can tell you! My father was the same! My dad suffered from depression as well , I often wonder if it's hereditary
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Post by Billybigbollox on Jul 19, 2017 19:14:14 GMT
Not sure about that Harry. Aspirin causes gastric bleeding which is not pleasant. A bloke I was at school with committed suicide last year by overdosing on barbiturates and whizz. A mutual friend found him and told me that he had bled out from gastric perforation. He said it was like a scene from a horror movie with blood everywhere. Ok I guess I need to do my homework billy It might be better to let nature take it's course Harry.
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