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Post by felonious on Feb 19, 2020 12:40:40 GMT
As a general rule it's always wise to look at the mother in law for clues Haha....wierd thing is the M-I-L-F is a real good laugh and I keep in constant contact with her....a real nice lady ( in a non pervy way ) Cheers Dutch anything further you'd like to add? I remember some entertaining tales from years gone by
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Post by dutchstokie on Feb 19, 2020 12:51:53 GMT
Haha....wierd thing is the M-I-L-F is a real good laugh and I keep in constant contact with her....a real nice lady ( in a non pervy way ) Cheers Dutch anything further you'd like to add? I remember some entertaining tales from years gone by Superb !
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Post by danceswithclams on Feb 19, 2020 13:27:41 GMT
Jesus Christ The spirit of Jezza Kyle lives on here! In all fairness go see relate and talk through it with a marriage counsellor, my old folks went after my old man was caught at it, saved them? Or at least it kept them together..... Fucking beta male soyboys Saw Fucking Beta Male Soyboys supporting World of Twist in the early 90s. Great band.
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Post by Pretty Little Boother on Feb 19, 2020 15:04:41 GMT
Here's a real man. Well in lad. I can't believe I've seriously read an alleged bloke seriously suggest trying to patch things up. What's the fucking world coming to? Soyboys... Beta male... These days... Cuckoldry... What's the world coming to... Looks like someone has been watching too much Paul Joseph Watson and spending too little time in the real world A few things... There's nothing wrong with beta males or gamma ones, kappa ones, theta ones, lambda ones, or any other ones for that matter. If everyone was an alpha male, the world would be even more full of cunts than it already is. Also you don't exactly strike me as an alpha male so I'm not sure why you're espousing it The OP is clearly going through a tough time. None of us can hope to understand what his exact situation is like. Yet here you are, knowing best and blustering away like General fucking Melchett. "Alleged bloke"?! Do us a fucking favour you pipe. You ask what the world is coming to, like some sad little old man. Well it's moving away from the sort of macho gibberish you clearly pine for. You can probably find plenty of lads pursuing "real man" status in places like Saudi Arabia if that sort of insecure repressed posturing is what you want. In all honesty your attitude fucking stinks "these days" pal. You used to be a decent poster. But you've lurched so far into alt right fantasy land that many of your posts now verge on the incomprehensible. Some, like these ones, are just downright vile. Take a deep breath and think before you knowingly insult someone going through a marriage break up in future. You don't know best. None of us do. And try to keep that big ole chip on your shoulder to yourself if you've got nothing constructive to offer.Lies, lies, lies. It's all you do. From lying about having multiple accounts, lying about me being alt right, you just make stuff up. You're intelligent enough to make a clever sounding post but everyone sees through it. I'm quite interested in how you justify your alt-right lie though. I have never made a racist post in my life and openly condemn racism. If anything, racism is anti-libertarian. I know you mock libertarianism but surely you can see it's incompatible with racism? So how can I be alt-right? That's before taking into account I'm a feminist, pro-LGBT-rights and pro-drug-legalisation supporter. Bit of a wank alt-rightist, wouldn't you say? Edit- I'm also pointing out the irony in you, of all people, calling someone else's posts "vile". You are comfortably the nastiest, most aggressive, and most abusive regular poster on the entire board. You're thoroughly unpleasant. Pots and kettles.
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Post by vokeswagen on Feb 19, 2020 17:32:15 GMT
Soyboys... Beta male... These days... Cuckoldry... What's the world coming to... Looks like someone has been watching too much Paul Joseph Watson and spending too little time in the real world A few things... There's nothing wrong with beta males or gamma ones, kappa ones, theta ones, lambda ones, or any other ones for that matter. If everyone was an alpha male, the world would be even more full of cunts than it already is. Also you don't exactly strike me as an alpha male so I'm not sure why you're espousing it The OP is clearly going through a tough time. None of us can hope to understand what his exact situation is like. Yet here you are, knowing best and blustering away like General fucking Melchett. "Alleged bloke"?! Do us a fucking favour you pipe. You ask what the world is coming to, like some sad little old man. Well it's moving away from the sort of macho gibberish you clearly pine for. You can probably find plenty of lads pursuing "real man" status in places like Saudi Arabia if that sort of insecure repressed posturing is what you want. In all honesty your attitude fucking stinks "these days" pal. You used to be a decent poster. But you've lurched so far into alt right fantasy land that many of your posts now verge on the incomprehensible. Some, like these ones, are just downright vile. Take a deep breath and think before you knowingly insult someone going through a marriage break up in future. You don't know best. None of us do. And try to keep that big ole chip on your shoulder to yourself if you've got nothing constructive to offer.Lies, lies, lies. It's all you do. From lying about having multiple accounts, lying about me being alt right, you just make stuff up. You're intelligent enough to make a clever sounding post but everyone sees through it. I'm quite interested in how you justify your alt-right lie though. I have never made a racist post in my life and openly condemn racism. If anything, racism is anti-libertarian. I know you mock libertarianism but surely you can see it's incompatible with racism? So how can I be alt-right? That's before taking into account I'm a feminist, pro-LGBT-rights and pro-drug-legalisation supporter. Bit of a wank alt-rightist, wouldn't you say? Edit- I'm also pointing out the irony in you, of all people, calling someone else's posts "vile". You are comfortably the nastiest, most aggressive, and most abusive regular poster on the entire board. You're thoroughly unpleasant. Pots and kettles. So you've come on and insulted the OP who's clearly having a tough time, and then mocked another poster offering perfectly sensible neutral advice, calling into question whether they're "real men". At fucking 4am or whatever, probably loaded off your tits. And now you're trying to deflect a load of bullshit onto me because you can't admit you've made a simple mistake. And you talk about real men. Pathetic. We can continue this by PM anyway, it's not relevant to the OP's issue.
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Post by felonious on Feb 19, 2020 19:16:23 GMT
Soyboys... Beta male... These days... Cuckoldry... What's the world coming to... Looks like someone has been watching too much Paul Joseph Watson and spending too little time in the real world A few things... There's nothing wrong with beta males or gamma ones, kappa ones, theta ones, lambda ones, or any other ones for that matter. If everyone was an alpha male, the world would be even more full of cunts than it already is. Also you don't exactly strike me as an alpha male so I'm not sure why you're espousing it The OP is clearly going through a tough time. None of us can hope to understand what his exact situation is like. Yet here you are, knowing best and blustering away like General fucking Melchett. "Alleged bloke"?! Do us a fucking favour you pipe. You ask what the world is coming to, like some sad little old man. Well it's moving away from the sort of macho gibberish you clearly pine for. You can probably find plenty of lads pursuing "real man" status in places like Saudi Arabia if that sort of insecure repressed posturing is what you want. In all honesty your attitude fucking stinks "these days" pal. You used to be a decent poster. But you've lurched so far into alt right fantasy land that many of your posts now verge on the incomprehensible. Some, like these ones, are just downright vile. Take a deep breath and think before you knowingly insult someone going through a marriage break up in future. You don't know best. None of us do. And try to keep that big ole chip on your shoulder to yourself if you've got nothing constructive to offer.Lies, lies, lies. It's all you do. From lying about having multiple accounts, lying about me being alt right, you just make stuff up. You're intelligent enough to make a clever sounding post but everyone sees through it. I'm quite interested in how you justify your alt-right lie though. I have never made a racist post in my life and openly condemn racism. If anything, racism is anti-libertarian. I know you mock libertarianism but surely you can see it's incompatible with racism? So how can I be alt-right? That's before taking into account I'm a feminist, pro-LGBT-rights and pro-drug-legalisation supporter. Bit of a wank alt-rightist, wouldn't you say? Edit- I'm also pointing out the irony in you, of all people, calling someone else's posts "vile". You are comfortably the nastiest, most aggressive, and most abusive regular poster on the entire board. You're thoroughly unpleasant. Pots and kettles.Please keep up the good work mate it gives us all a break when the eye of Sauron if pointing in a different direction
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Post by heyzeus on Feb 19, 2020 19:29:17 GMT
I've not really seen VW be nasty. A bit robust at times, but there are definitely worse offenders, and some seriously nasty comments made frequently by many others that go unchallenged.
And it's a bit of an irony to bemoan a bit of aggression when you're dropping terms like alpha and soy. I thought this was a footy board. A man's space for chrissakes.
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Post by woodstein on Feb 19, 2020 22:32:29 GMT
Its The Oatcake not Dear Deardrie!
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Post by foster on Feb 20, 2020 8:23:14 GMT
Soyboys... Beta male... These days... Cuckoldry... What's the world coming to... Looks like someone has been watching too much Paul Joseph Watson and spending too little time in the real world A few things... There's nothing wrong with beta males or gamma ones, kappa ones, theta ones, lambda ones, or any other ones for that matter. If everyone was an alpha male, the world would be even more full of cunts than it already is. Also you don't exactly strike me as an alpha male so I'm not sure why you're espousing it The OP is clearly going through a tough time. None of us can hope to understand what his exact situation is like. Yet here you are, knowing best and blustering away like General fucking Melchett. "Alleged bloke"?! Do us a fucking favour you pipe. You ask what the world is coming to, like some sad little old man. Well it's moving away from the sort of macho gibberish you clearly pine for. You can probably find plenty of lads pursuing "real man" status in places like Saudi Arabia if that sort of insecure repressed posturing is what you want. In all honesty your attitude fucking stinks "these days" pal. You used to be a decent poster. But you've lurched so far into alt right fantasy land that many of your posts now verge on the incomprehensible. Some, like these ones, are just downright vile. Take a deep breath and think before you knowingly insult someone going through a marriage break up in future. You don't know best. None of us do. And try to keep that big ole chip on your shoulder to yourself if you've got nothing constructive to offer.Lies, lies, lies. It's all you do. From lying about having multiple accounts, lying about me being alt right, you just make stuff up. You're intelligent enough to make a clever sounding post but everyone sees through it. I'm quite interested in how you justify your alt-right lie though. I have never made a racist post in my life and openly condemn racism. If anything, racism is anti-libertarian. I know you mock libertarianism but surely you can see it's incompatible with racism? So how can I be alt-right? That's before taking into account I'm a feminist, pro-LGBT-rights and pro-drug-legalisation supporter. Bit of a wank alt-rightist, wouldn't you say? Edit- I'm also pointing out the irony in you, of all people, calling someone else's posts "vile". You are comfortably the nastiest, most aggressive, and most abusive regular poster on the entire board. You're thoroughly unpleasant. Pots and kettles. Really let yourself down with that one.
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Post by lordb on Feb 20, 2020 10:26:09 GMT
Fucking beta male soyboys Saw Fucking Beta Male Soyboys supporting World of Twist in the early 90s. Great band. Not so good when they changed their name to Take That
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Post by foster on Feb 20, 2020 13:19:00 GMT
Did you manage to keep the car? Nah we sold it and split the money ( which some way made up for the nearly €6 K she cleaned out of our joint account !!!!!!) You got it easy. I got shafted with 5k credit card bills (spent by her), lost 10k in savings (our savings but under her name), she got the house, I got lumbered with the 'new' car which I couldn't afford and ended up selling and then paying off the remaining 5k loan (which I had to borrow from my dad). On top of that I got made redundant 4 months after I moved out and have been renting for the past 3 years as I can't afford to buy a place. And I paid all the divorce costs which took 2 years to complete. Awesome!
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Post by woodstein on Feb 20, 2020 13:19:11 GMT
It was a good track by Simply Red!
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Post by vokeswagen on Feb 20, 2020 13:31:53 GMT
Lies, lies, lies. It's all you do. From lying about having multiple accounts, lying about me being alt right, you just make stuff up. You're intelligent enough to make a clever sounding post but everyone sees through it. I'm quite interested in how you justify your alt-right lie though. I have never made a racist post in my life and openly condemn racism. If anything, racism is anti-libertarian. I know you mock libertarianism but surely you can see it's incompatible with racism? So how can I be alt-right? That's before taking into account I'm a feminist, pro-LGBT-rights and pro-drug-legalisation supporter. Bit of a wank alt-rightist, wouldn't you say? Edit- I'm also pointing out the irony in you, of all people, calling someone else's posts "vile". You are comfortably the nastiest, most aggressive, and most abusive regular poster on the entire board. You're thoroughly unpleasant. Pots and kettles.Please keep up the good work mate it gives us all a break when the eye of Sauron if pointing in a different direction Don't give it out and none of your accounts get it back mate. It's not rocket science
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Post by chigstoke on Feb 20, 2020 13:45:08 GMT
Nah we sold it and split the money ( which some way made up for the nearly €6 K she cleaned out of our joint account !!!!!!) You got it easy. I got shafted with 5k credit card bills (spent by her), lost 10k in savings (our savings but under her name), she got the house, I got lumbered with the 'new' car which I couldn't afford and ended up selling and then paying off the remaining 5k loan (which I had to borrow from my dad). On top of that I got made redundant 4 months after I moved out and have been renting for the past 3 years as I can't afford to buy a place. And I paid all the divorce costs which took 2 years to complete. Awesome! Fucking hell Foster, sorry to hear about all that mate.
You had it all thrown at you at once there.
It probably doesn't mean too much from some random git on the oatie but wishing all the best for the future mate.
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Post by vokeswagen on Feb 20, 2020 13:55:16 GMT
Nah we sold it and split the money ( which some way made up for the nearly €6 K she cleaned out of our joint account !!!!!!) You got it easy. I got shafted with 5k credit card bills (spent by her), lost 10k in savings (our savings but under her name), she got the house, I got lumbered with the 'new' car which I couldn't afford and ended up selling and then paying off the remaining 5k loan (which I had to borrow from my dad). On top of that I got made redundant 4 months after I moved out and have been renting for the past 3 years as I can't afford to buy a place. And I paid all the divorce costs which took 2 years to complete. Awesome! I'd echo the thoughts of chigstoke - wishing you all the best mate. One thing I would say is that in my experience, difficult situations usually improve, no matter how hard they are at the time. I'd be confident your situation will do likewise
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Post by foster on Feb 20, 2020 14:57:51 GMT
You got it easy. I got shafted with 5k credit card bills (spent by her), lost 10k in savings (our savings but under her name), she got the house, I got lumbered with the 'new' car which I couldn't afford and ended up selling and then paying off the remaining 5k loan (which I had to borrow from my dad). On top of that I got made redundant 4 months after I moved out and have been renting for the past 3 years as I can't afford to buy a place. And I paid all the divorce costs which took 2 years to complete. Awesome! I'd echo the thoughts of chigstoke - wishing you all the best mate. One thing I would say is that in my experience, difficult situations usually improve, no matter how hard they are at the time. I'd be confident your situation will do likewise Thanks guys. I had a torrid time back then. So much so I wasn't on here for a year or so. But, to be honest, being made redundant actually helped me as I used the payout to cover all those costs. Otherwise I would have been really fucked. I then found a better job 3 months later and have been there since. I also have a new bird. She's German, but not in the pervy way which is a little disappointing. Renting irks me but at least I can save a bit now that the bird has moved in. Prior to that I was counting pennies. I had to cancel my subscriptions to just about everything, like netflix, spotify, gym membership, etc. Hopefully I'll save enough over the next 10 years (once the kids move out) to buy something elsewhere. Probably in Germany as the only family I have left are my dad and sister up in Warrington. In more recent news, after my mum passed away (December 2018) my ex got diagnosed with Leukemia this December so I'm now taking care of the kids full time and managing everything while she undergoes chemo. Not easy, but it's been worse and is worse for plenty of other people.
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Post by vokeswagen on Feb 20, 2020 18:43:51 GMT
I'd echo the thoughts of chigstoke - wishing you all the best mate. One thing I would say is that in my experience, difficult situations usually improve, no matter how hard they are at the time. I'd be confident your situation will do likewise Thanks guys. I had a torrid time back then. So much so I wasn't on here for a year or so. But, to be honest, being made redundant actually helped me as I used the payout to cover all those costs. Otherwise I would have been really fucked. I then found a better job 3 months later and have been there since. I also have a new bird. She's German, but not in the pervy way which is a little disappointing. Renting irks me but at least I can save a bit now that the bird has moved in. Prior to that I was counting pennies. I had to cancel my subscriptions to just about everything, like netflix, spotify, gym membership, etc. Hopefully I'll save enough over the next 10 years (once the kids move out) to buy something elsewhere. Probably in Germany as the only family I have left are my dad and sister up in Warrington. In more recent news, after my mum passed away (December 2018) my ex got diagnosed with Leukemia this December so I'm now taking care of the kids full time and managing everything while she undergoes chemo. Not easy, but it's been worse and is worse for plenty of other people. Sounds a brutal few years mate. But seems like you're dealing it one step at a time though, which in my experience is the only way. I hope your kids' mum pulls through and it all works out as well as these things can.
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Post by dutchstokie on Feb 20, 2020 20:21:30 GMT
Nah we sold it and split the money ( which some way made up for the nearly €6 K she cleaned out of our joint account !!!!!!) You got it easy. I got shafted with 5k credit card bills (spent by her), lost 10k in savings (our savings but under her name), she got the house, I got lumbered with the 'new' car which I couldn't afford and ended up selling and then paying off the remaining 5k loan (which I had to borrow from my dad). On top of that I got made redundant 4 months after I moved out and have been renting for the past 3 years as I can't afford to buy a place. And I paid all the divorce costs which took 2 years to complete. Awesome! Yowsers..... Fair play to you foster..... keep charging fella, good times are kust around the corner, you Just see
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2020 20:36:21 GMT
Nah we sold it and split the money ( which some way made up for the nearly €6 K she cleaned out of our joint account !!!!!!) You got it easy. I got shafted with 5k credit card bills (spent by her), lost 10k in savings (our savings but under her name), she got the house, I got lumbered with the 'new' car which I couldn't afford and ended up selling and then paying off the remaining 5k loan (which I had to borrow from my dad). On top of that I got made redundant 4 months after I moved out and have been renting for the past 3 years as I can't afford to buy a place. And I paid all the divorce costs which took 2 years to complete. Awesome! I had similar a few years ago but wasn't married. Difference was she never thought it through. She had run up about 9k of credit card bills showing off with her new work friends, her new car was being paid for from my account along with her monthly credit card, car insurance etc as we had a agreement , she paid certain things of mine in return. We were also set to go to Dubai in a few weeks. I cancelled all her outgoings from my account , took someone else to Dubai and she tried to come crawling back after she was fired from work after not turning up from being hungover etc. I sold my house, bought a new one and a new car and all was great, she ended up getting dumped by new fella and living in a damp flat with no job and huge debts. I did give her he heavy metal LPs back though as only fair
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Post by partickpotter on Feb 20, 2020 20:37:27 GMT
I'd echo the thoughts of chigstoke - wishing you all the best mate. One thing I would say is that in my experience, difficult situations usually improve, no matter how hard they are at the time. I'd be confident your situation will do likewise Thanks guys. I had a torrid time back then. So much so I wasn't on here for a year or so. But, to be honest, being made redundant actually helped me as I used the payout to cover all those costs. Otherwise I would have been really fucked. I then found a better job 3 months later and have been there since. I also have a new bird. She's German, but not in the pervy way which is a little disappointing. Renting irks me but at least I can save a bit now that the bird has moved in. Prior to that I was counting pennies. I had to cancel my subscriptions to just about everything, like netflix, spotify, gym membership, etc. Hopefully I'll save enough over the next 10 years (once the kids move out) to buy something elsewhere. Probably in Germany as the only family I have left are my dad and sister up in Warrington. In more recent news, after my mum passed away (December 2018) my ex got diagnosed with Leukemia this December so I'm now taking care of the kids full time and managing everything while she undergoes chemo. Not easy, but it's been worse and is worse for plenty of other people. Respect fella. Life ain’t easy. But you gotta stay positive. You’ve done well.
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Post by metalhead on Feb 20, 2020 21:24:35 GMT
I’d go and confront the other cunt as well You don't know what his deal is though do you? For all you know, she's been telling him she is a single woman. I've had that. I've also subsequently been hurt by that.... after it all came out and she had to choose. I was the one left in the rain. Personally, I think it's been touched on above.... for me, it's the mental imagery. I hate the term "it was just sex" because that's the excuse used by someone in the wrong. If it was just sex, you go out and fuck someone that weekend, see how that theory works then. The reality is, if it happened to me, I couldn't get over the mental imagery or the feelings of them laughing at me behind my back. It's both of those added together. Her actually doing it.... and then having a good laugh in bed after "what about your fella", "oh what he won't know won't hurt him" kind of thing. It's all a good laugh at your expense. I would personally pie her off and take whatever shit comes with it. It's not a fun experience and trust me, it'll get a lot worse before it gets better, but long term you'll be happier mate. Life can be shit, but sometimes you just have to make the right choices for you... not other people. You will still be a dad to your kids and you don't have to necessarily end on bad terms with your wife/partner. Just end it with a rational and well-thought out explanation and do it in a way that doesn't go out with a blaze of glory. Sometimes taking the higher ground is better... Trust me, I've taken the low ground, you never feel better after. If you do, it's a brief moment of solace.
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Post by vokeswagen on Feb 20, 2020 21:26:42 GMT
I’d go and confront the other cunt as well You don't know what his deal is though do you? For all you know, she's been telling him she is a single woman. I've had that. I've also subsequently been hurt by that.... after it all came out and she had to choose. I was the one left in the rain. Personally, I think it's been touched on above.... for me, it's the mental imagery. I hate the term "it was just sex" because that's the excuse used by someone in the wrong. If it was just sex, you go out and fuck someone that weekend, see how that theory works then. The reality is, if it happened to me, I couldn't get over the mental imagery or the feelings of them laughing at me behind my back. It's both of those added together. Her actually doing it.... and then having a good laugh in bed after "what about your fella", "oh what he won't know won't hurt him" kind of thing. It's all a good laugh at your expense. I would personally pie her off and take whatever shit comes with it. It's not a fun experience and trust me, it'll get a lot worse before it gets better, but long term you'll be happier mate. Life can be shit, but sometimes you just have to make the right choices for you... not other people. You will still be a dad to your kids and you don't have to necessarily end on bad terms with your wife/partner. Just end it with a rational and well-thought out explanation and do it in a way that doesn't go out with a blaze of glory. Sometimes taking the higher ground is better... Trust me, I've taken the low ground, you never feel better after. If you do, it's a brief moment of solace. Excellent post.
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Post by marwood on Feb 20, 2020 22:41:51 GMT
Some sobering thoughts on here and makes me realise how lucky I am
Was cheated on by a girl and took her back but we had only been dating for just under a year, still hurt like hell especially when she did it again (and was bombed off for good)
Every story is different given context .
I’d also advise any one contemplating an affair to take a read of these stories as well, because for every unfaithful wife there’s some back street boozer Romeo who doesn’t really know or care what damage he’s doing
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Post by metalhead on Feb 28, 2020 23:29:24 GMT
Have you had any progress webby?
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Post by scfcwebby on Jan 26, 2021 23:45:20 GMT
Have you had any progress webby? Thought I'd revisit this thread. Yes, I left her, woke up one morning and said I couldn't do it and left. Went to a dark place (mainly because of the upset that my kids went through) but came out of the other side. Met someone through a friend, who is incredible and made me realise what happiness actually is. I've moved to Oldham (every cloud and all that) and moves in with her and I've not been as happy in a long time. She's still an absolute oxygen thief and still playing the victim but I'm numb to it now. I'M happy, my kids are happy and there is an (unexpected) baby girl on the way and I couldn't be happier about it. Thank for all of your advise!
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Post by metalhead on Jan 27, 2021 0:35:00 GMT
Have you had any progress webby? Thought I'd revisit this thread. Yes, I left her, woke up one morning and said I couldn't do it and left. Went to a dark place (mainly because of the upset that my kids went through) but came out of the other side. Met someone through a friend, who is incredible and made me realise what happiness actually is. I've moved to Oldham (every cloud and all that) and moves in with her and I've not been as happy in a long time. She's still an absolute oxygen thief and still playing the victim but I'm numb to it now. I'M happy, my kids are happy and there is an (unexpected) baby girl on the way and I couldn't be happier about it. Thank for all of your advise! Took a hell of a lot of bravery that did and to also follow up here. So glad you found happiness mate
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Post by thehartshillbadger on Jan 27, 2021 6:38:05 GMT
Have you had any progress webby? Thought I'd revisit this thread. Yes, I left her, woke up one morning and said I couldn't do it and left. Went to a dark place (mainly because of the upset that my kids went through) but came out of the other side. Met someone through a friend, who is incredible and made me realise what happiness actually is. I've moved to Oldham (every cloud and all that) and moves in with her and I've not been as happy in a long time. She's still an absolute oxygen thief and still playing the victim but I'm numb to it now. I'M happy, my kids are happy and there is an (unexpected) baby girl on the way and I couldn't be happier about it. Thank for all of your advise! Well done mate and good luck👍🏻
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Post by chigstoke on Jan 27, 2021 13:28:36 GMT
Have you had any progress webby? Thought I'd revisit this thread. Yes, I left her, woke up one morning and said I couldn't do it and left. Went to a dark place (mainly because of the upset that my kids went through) but came out of the other side. Met someone through a friend, who is incredible and made me realise what happiness actually is. I've moved to Oldham (every cloud and all that) and moves in with her and I've not been as happy in a long time. She's still an absolute oxygen thief and still playing the victim but I'm numb to it now. I'M happy, my kids are happy and there is an (unexpected) baby girl on the way and I couldn't be happier about it. Thank for all of your advise! Congrats, Webby on the baby news. And huge props to you for coming out the other side so strongly. All the best.
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