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Post by gb on Sept 24, 2011 23:30:25 GMT
PEOPLE DON'T GET THROWN OUT FOR NOTHING . DONE CARE WHAT YOU SAY ..
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Post by steino1966 on Sept 24, 2011 23:39:33 GMT
stewards came to my brother last year about swearing and said do it once more they kick him out so he argued that the steward is taking one of his human rights off him, this completely stumped the steward.
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Post by Huddysleftfoot on Sept 24, 2011 23:42:30 GMT
so you feel humiliated at being thrown out in front of your kids, but you think its ok to swear in front of them and tell someone else to sit the fuck down? What a hyprocite you are. Maybe you need to learn some manners in front of your own children + 1
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Post by Deleted on Sept 24, 2011 23:46:16 GMT
One grabbed hold of me for smoking in the posh seats last season with 2 minutes left to full time... ....and then he fainted.
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Post by darksideofthemoon on Sept 24, 2011 23:47:22 GMT
If you actually said "Sit the fuck down" then perhaps you should take a long look at your own behaviour in front of your children. The person you swore at had a right to complain imo. If this was your original approach, I'm not really surpised that there was a complaint made........there are more appropriate ways of speaking to other people (particularly in front of children). To be arbritrarily chucked out for one comment, though seems a bit harsh......are you sure you didn't get stuck into the stewards, too?? Are you telling us the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth....so help you God??
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Post by peepin on Sept 25, 2011 0:09:49 GMT
Im afraid this kind of behaviour comes with the fucking new glory hunting territory. Never would have happened when there were 12000 in against Plymouth. If I were you Id complain and ask to move seats. ....unless you went Plymouth away, then you would of got chucked out for chanting too loud! rediculous stewarding at their place!
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Post by Billy the kid on Sept 25, 2011 6:55:20 GMT
No I was not the guy with 2 boys, and my season ticket is at the back of he south stand. Having slept on it I am still highly annoyed and if you see the game was no more than 12 minutes long so this was not a long draw argument. Within 30 seconds of talking to her she was off down the stairs. Secondly it was not even her seat and thirdly any child that goes to a football game hears much worse than sit the fuck down. Still many on here go to games, never swear, never been kicked out etc etc. I suggest that if you want to test how easy it is to get kicked out, go and tell a steward someone just looked at you funny.
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Post by chattyladypotter on Sept 25, 2011 7:39:12 GMT
not being funny but "any chance you can sit down duck so that my lad can see?" would probably have done the trick and u missed a great game. if you want someone to blame then look in the mirror. going to the football is no excuse for talking to people like that, get over it and get to the game and stop mard arsing, that said, stewards went over the top.
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Post by northantsash on Sept 25, 2011 7:47:33 GMT
if you feel so aggrieved mate, its important that you contact the club and report the incident. I understand you want to share the incident on here, but complaining to members on here wont solve the issue. Follow up your feelings and report it, if how you describe it on here is accurate, the stewards have very little to back them up.
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Post by Billy the kid on Sept 25, 2011 7:53:42 GMT
I will be backing it up with a complaint, they also trapped my sons fingers in the door, I do accept my part in this, but at the end of the day the stewards did not act appropriately. And you are never going to win an argument against 10 stewards once you have had a few beers are you? I do love how some on here, nowhere near the incident are so quick to judge. Those that did see what went on, not only thought it was disgusting how I was treated but also thought the contents of the conversation was nothing more than what happens all over every stadium at any given game every week.
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Post by Pricey on Sept 25, 2011 7:56:29 GMT
I will be backing it up with a complaint Are you going to tell them you told her to sit the fuck down?
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Post by stokie09 on Sept 25, 2011 8:08:23 GMT
boring boring boring boring boring
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Post by Red and White Eyes on Sept 25, 2011 8:11:17 GMT
I like how it says in the original post "In the 12th minute" - proper football fans way of describing something. ;-)
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Post by Pricey on Sept 25, 2011 8:13:24 GMT
He actually said, "on the 12th minute"...
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Post by Deleted on Sept 25, 2011 8:15:18 GMT
4quit, don't let this incident send you over the edge. This club owes it to fans like you, not glamour pusses showing up to do a bit of WAG spotting when ManU come to town. I have noticed that since we have been in the Prem, there have been people at matches who wander about like they're at a cocktail party and screw their noses up at you if you tell them they're in the way. They have no idea about football etiquette, but I have no doubt that they are experts at being outraged.
I think you can probably learn a lesson from the blonde bint here. I imagine she went and found a steward and said you had used foul language, were very threatening and she expected something to be done about it. (I don't doubt that she batted her eyelashes as well).
If in future you need to say "Excuse me, you're blocking our view." If she doesn't sit down, you say "I've asked you nicely, so if you don't sit down so me and the kids can see, I'll have to get a steward to intervene." If she still doesn't sort herself out then get the steward.
You can tell him the truth, but if you want to lay it on thick, say "There's a prostitute parading for business up and down the stands. I wouldn't mind, but she's spoiling my view, can you get someone to remove her and run her back to Cobridge"
And make sure a few people people around you hear you say this, in case you need a bit of verbal back-up.
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Post by Yorkshirepotter on Sept 25, 2011 8:22:05 GMT
Are you right in the top corner of the south stand, red sweatshirt on i think?
If so we saw the stewards go rushing up the stairs as though WW3 had broken out and went to where this bloke was. He looked to be talking with the stewards but cirtainly didnt look aggressive, and when he came down with about 8 steward the guy looked more stunned than anything.
He was then folllowed by a woman looking equally as stunned with two young kids, the little girl was bawling her eyes out.
I can understand people thinking there must be more to it but the way the stewards charged up, we assumed it had kicked off or their were shit fans in the stand. Totally over the top reaction to a bloke swearing.
Another point, even if he had sworn or even threatened her (im not saying you did, just an example) why can the stewards just chuck you out on the word of a random person with no proof, no right of reply or defence?
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Post by nottinghamstokie on Sept 25, 2011 8:31:13 GMT
FFS - and NOW you casually slip in that your little boys finger got caught in a door ???????
You really are milking it - I have to say your opening line of "a johny come lately blonde bint" shows quite a lot of what a moron you are.
Do you know ALL our 25000-ish regular home fans ? NO, so how do you know she's a "Johnny (correct spelling ) come lately" ?
I accept you probably spotted "blonde" correctly
"Bint" - that is just plain offensive, so all in all I deduce that the combination of describing someone as offensively as that and also the words that you claim to have used to her add up to you being the sort of supporter that the club actually doesn't need, really
and 12th minute - nope, it's all far too detailed, something is not right here at all, and I think it's you.
But why not give us your seat number and next game we can club together and get you 2 coffees so you can sit down with the blonde lady and apologise to her for insulting her ?
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Post by peterthornesboots on Sept 25, 2011 8:45:39 GMT
I got kicked out on the 12th minute for asking a johny come lately blonde bint to sit down so my 7 year old son could watch the game, she started the big I am, the next minute my family (all season ticket holders, all been going donkeys years) are all asked to come down for a word b. The stewards before getting kicked out. Not only am I been hard done to but also been taken the piss out of I front of my kids. Fuck you Stoke I will never return again and you can have your ago um plus scarf back I actually have the greatest amount of sympathy for you and your kids after reading the above post. I'm sure it was a unhappy end to what should have been a fantastic day. However, I do think that you have over-reacted slightly. Obviously you were pissed off last night but an incident like this shouldn't Make you want to quit Stoke altogether. As a Stokie, my love for my club would be too strong to let something like that make me want to to give it in. Hopefully after a nights sleep you will realise that the best corse of action is to write a letter of complaint. I'm sure the club will compensate you and deal with the incident correctly. I hope that we will be seeing both yourself and your son at the next home game mate!
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Post by Billy the kid on Sept 25, 2011 8:46:47 GMT
Yeah that was me in the red top
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Post by Yorkshirepotter on Sept 25, 2011 9:01:27 GMT
Yeah that was me in the red top Then don't let it stop you supporting the club and make a bloody complaint. These rent-a-thug nazi wankers (the cunts in the yellow hi viz, not the orange coats) are desparate for it to kick off somewhere so they can have a brawl without the risk of getting into trouble and sometimes seem to go out of their way to stir it up. Make it clear to the club how you feel and how visibly upset your kids were, then get your arse back down for the next game and get behind the lads.
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Post by darksideofthemoon on Sept 25, 2011 9:27:04 GMT
I will be backing it up with a complaint, they also trapped my sons fingers in the door, I do accept my part in this, but at the end of the day the stewards did not act appropriately. And you are never going to win an argument against 10 stewards once you have had a few beers are you? I do love how some on here, nowhere near the incident are so quick to judge. Those that did see what went on, not only thought it was disgusting how I was treated but also thought the contents of the conversation was nothing more than what happens all over every stadium at any given game every week. Do we now assume that a) you used foul language towards a woman, and b) you had 'had a few beers'?? How many beers had you consumed? Were you confrontational and argumentative as well as rude? Just playing Devil's Advocate, here......not taking sides
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Post by tijuanabrass on Sept 25, 2011 9:37:53 GMT
If all is as stated here, even with the swearing thrown in, it sounds like you were very hard done by. From the club's perspective we should be expecting a higher standard of service from their own personnel and also from the contractors they use. Staff in positions that are dealing with the public should be taught how to calm and diffuse situations without attracting the negative publicity that something like this could bring. Some people might be as bold as to suggest a direct course of action whereby you go to the next game, use your camera to photograph the steward, post the pics on a message board and let internet justice take its course. Rationally this would not be a wise solution. Sometimes stupid people find themselves in the wrong jobs. To me, unless there was a mitigating factor what they did was deprive you of something for which you'd paid - theft if you will. The best course of action is to take it up with the club. You owe it to future victims of this jobsworth to do this. If that doesn't work, have a word with a lawyer. Take it up with the club in a civil way orGet legalled up
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Post by adbrightonstokie on Sept 25, 2011 9:40:52 GMT
FFS - and NOW you casually slip in that your little boys finger got caught in a door ??????? You really are milking it - I have to say your opening line of "a johny come lately blonde bint" shows quite a lot of what a moron you are. Do you know ALL our 25000-ish regular home fans ? NO, so how do you know she's a "Johnny (correct spelling ) come lately" ? I accept you probably spotted "blonde" correctly "Bint" - that is just plain offensive, so all in all I deduce that the combination of describing someone as offensively as that and also the words that you claim to have used to her add up to you being the sort of supporter that the club actually doesn't need, really and 12th minute - nope, it's all far too detailed, something is not right here at all, and I think it's you. But why not give us your seat number and next game we can club together and get you 2 coffees so you can sit down with the blonde lady and apologise to her for insulting her ? How insightful
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Post by stokiesimon on Sept 25, 2011 10:22:04 GMT
If what you are claiming is the truth then their is no way in the world I would of allowed the stewards to remove me from my seat so easily and once I had being ejected I would of being protesting my innocence at the main reception. But I suspect u went so easily as your real response was slightly different than u described, the club has a policy against standing and would of supported your claim had u followed the rules and procedures.
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Post by stokiecarl09 on Sept 25, 2011 10:35:13 GMT
4quit, did they take your season ticket off you?
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Post by Old School Stokie on Sept 25, 2011 10:53:39 GMT
There's a lot of swearing can be done in 12 minutes. Swearing seems to be common place with some. As if its OK and can be done in public. Maybe its Ok with your mates or if you hit your thumb with a hammer, but not in public, in a family and especially with your own kids. Probably the right decision not to go to future games then others don't have to listen to you. Perhaps anger management and widen your vocab. And tell your kids you were wrong to swear and this is what happens when you use foul and abusive language and have an agressive attitude. I would like to hear the blonde "slag"s view or amyone else nearby.
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Post by redstripe on Sept 25, 2011 10:53:46 GMT
write to the club pointing out that before kick off and at half time they actually appeal to the crowd to remain seated therefore it should have been the bint thrown out not you as she was the one causing the problem
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Post by StokieMatt on Sept 25, 2011 11:00:14 GMT
So you Just a casual slip of the tongue then to tell her sit fuck down ;D
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Post by xchpotter on Sept 25, 2011 11:08:30 GMT
There's a lot of swearing can be done in 12 minutes. Swearing seems to be common place with some. As if its OK and can be done in public. Maybe its Ok with your mates or if you hit your thumb with a hammer, but not in public, in a family and especially with your own kids. Probably the right decision not to go to future games then others don't have to listen to you. Perhaps anger management and widen your vocab. And tell your kids you were wrong to swear and this is what happens when you use foul and abusive language and have an agressive attitude. I would like to hear the blonde "slag"s view or amyone else nearby. Agree 100%. No one is naive enough to suggest it doesn't happen but swearing in front of kids only serves to validate it for them and then next thing they start swearing and are called chavs for doing so. Most people swear, I know I do but I choose my audience carefully and if someone swore in front of my kids I'd be minded to do something about. Also, I may be wrong but is it not a condition of behaviour to refrane from foul and abusive language at football matches.......if it is the case then its hard to criticise the stewards too much, though I would hope to see them issue a warning first and only eject if the warnings were ignored.
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Post by buddyfolly on Sept 25, 2011 11:08:31 GMT
if everyone reported incidents like this the bloody ground would be empty,how ironic that the club has a strong policy on people not standing and this bloke gets chucked out for trying to get someone to do just that.I was sitting a few rows down from this and we all said it was a shit thing to happen.one steward should of gone up and had a word with both parties and that would of been that, instead we had an army of them rushing up as if someone was waving a gun about,totally un-necessary and overblown.Stewards should be doing just that stewarding matches and NOT holding on the spot kangeroo courts.Let it blow over mate and don't deny yourself of watching what could be a cracking season!
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