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Post by werrington on Jul 6, 2014 18:40:14 GMT
I enjoy calling people cunts, and I have no problem in being called one either as it is a fact. Anyone who deletes their account because someone has upset them is a handbag swinging gayer and that is another fact. H See yer sparring partner Tazi has deleted his account RAF
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Post by Mr_DaftBurger on Jul 6, 2014 18:40:37 GMT
I enjoy calling people cunts, and I have no problem in being called one either as it is a fact. H No it's not, a cunts useful! Fact!
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Post by RAF on Jul 6, 2014 18:41:59 GMT
I enjoy calling people cunts, and I have no problem in being called one either as it is a fact. H No it's not, a cunts useful! Fact! I said I have no problem being called one , not being one you fucking knobcheese Zobbit! H:)
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Post by march4 on Jul 6, 2014 18:42:05 GMT
I enjoy calling people cunts, and I have no problem in being called one either as it is a fact. Anyone who deletes their account because someone has upset them is a handbag swinging gayer and that is another fact. H See yer sparring partner Tazi has deleted his account RAF Tazi and RVD both deleted??? What is going on?
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Post by RAF on Jul 6, 2014 18:42:37 GMT
I enjoy calling people cunts, and I have no problem in being called one either as it is a fact. Anyone who deletes their account because someone has upset them is a handbag swinging gayer and that is another fact. H See yer sparring partner Tazi has deleted his account RAF I refer you to my handbag swinging gayer comment! H :)
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Post by foster on Jul 6, 2014 18:44:18 GMT
I like RVD, but I'm not a fan of people announcing they're leaving. Seems a bit 'hey look at me'. Didn't see what happened but RVD doesn't strike me as the type to leave over a bit of abuse. I expect he'll be back soon enough. To be fair to RVD, I don't think he did announce he was leaving. He just deleted his account - not really a "look at me" action at all. He has every right to do it, but I wish he hadn't. I'd rather have lost ************** than RVD - although if ************** comes out with a superb blog after each Stoke game I could change my mind. Somehow, having seen **************'s work I doubt if he can replicate the great stuff RVD produced. Fair enough... As said, I didn't see what happened.
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Post by Mr_DaftBurger on Jul 6, 2014 18:44:36 GMT
No it's not, a cunts useful! Fact! I said I have no problem being called one , not being one you fucking knobcheese Zobbit! H:) And if you were called one it would not be a fact as, as said before, a cunt is useful. You cannon fodder, sitting in the dark playing space invaders, geek!
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Post by march4 on Jul 6, 2014 18:46:17 GMT
To be fair to RVD, I don't think he did announce he was leaving. He just deleted his account - not really a "look at me" action at all. He has every right to do it, but I wish he hadn't. I'd rather have lost ************** than RVD - although if ************** comes out with a superb blog after each Stoke game I could change my mind. Somehow, having seen **************'s work I doubt if he can replicate the great stuff RVD produced. Fair enough... As said, I didn't see what happened. Nor me!
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Post by bigjohnritchie on Jul 6, 2014 18:46:41 GMT
Pwingy
No I am not saying that at all.
I believe, but could be wrong (I have been once before), that some people may not want to get involved in threads because they dont want to receive the abuse/insults that they have seen on other threads. For me it is not about me personally being insulted, I have already been called and abused in my job to a much worse extent than can ever possibly happen on the Oatcake by people I do not know and cannot possibly hurt me. I am concerned about what is being allowed to be said ( the actal words) and the level of unnecessary abuse which may be read by children. I am proud of Stoke on Trent and The family club Stoke City and I just think that it is an unnecessary shame. I can live with it, I am not going to try to get compensation for hurt feeelings, but it is ashame
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Post by Squeekster on Jul 6, 2014 18:54:20 GMT
Some people are very active on here and like to have a say on most subjects,Rob is one of them and i regularly disagree and agree with him and many others for that matter but personal abuse either swearing or otherwise should not be tollerated in any circumstance.
I go back to our first season in the prem and we had Amdy Faye sent off at Middlesboro,well i thought it was a harsh red and then i had a disscusion with a poster who was telling me he was a referee and it was a red card all day long and we had a heated exchange no abuse mind and in the end i said look,i'll look again tonight on match of the day (never watched it since our first season in the prem!)and if i think any diiferent i'll buy you a pint and call it quits. He then tells me "i'm not old enough to drink i'm only 16" and that he refs at under 7's level.
Well first of all i was shocked i was having this conversation with a 16 year old (not his fault) and that things were getting a little heated but it made me realise that all age groups appear on here so now i'm careful in what i type unless i'm familiar with the poster and am comfortable with banter with them and there are plenty of them but i'm still warey all the same.
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 6, 2014 18:58:05 GMT
its not the abuse of personal insults that are the problem , ive put forward a few of my thoughts on occasions and been subjected to some pretty biting sarcasm & contempt by the same few people . im grown up enough to stand my corner but it would make me think twice again before voicing an opinion
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 6, 2014 18:59:52 GMT
Some people are very active on here and like to have a say on most subjects,Rob is one of them and i regularly disagree and agree with him and many others for that matter but personal abuse either swearing or otherwise should not be tollerated in any circumstance. I go back to our first season in the prem and we had Amdy Faye sent off at Middlesboro,well i thought it was a harsh red and then i had a disscusion with a poster who was telling me he was a referee and it was a red card all day long and we had a heated exchange no abuse mind and in the end i said look,i'll look again tonight on match of the day (never watched it since our first season in the prem!)and if i think any diiferent i'll buy you a pint and call it quits. He then tells me "i'm not old enough to drink i'm only 16" and that he refs at under 7's level. Well first of all i was shocked i was having this conversation with a 16 year old (not his fault) and that things were getting a little heated but it made me realise that all age groups appear on here so now i'm careful in what i type unless i'm familiar with the poster and am comfortable with banter with them and there are plenty of them but i'm still warey all the same. that young bayern was a cocky sod
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Post by bayernoatcake on Jul 6, 2014 19:05:11 GMT
I've never been daft enough to ref, I know I'd be shit and would end up getting knocked out!
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Post by Beardy200 on Jul 6, 2014 19:06:45 GMT
I don't know all the T's & C's but i thought you couldn't have an account on here until you're 13 (or not supposed to). There's nothing on here that the vast majority of 13 year old children won't hear every day on the playground or on the YouTube videos they're all constantly watching, so the actual language shouldn't be an issue in my opinion. People getting abused is a bit different and i very rarely do it. Even if i do i always water it down to stuff like "C'mon mate, you're now making yourself look a bit of an idiot". That shouldn't upset people too much but if you're ever on the end of it i actually mean "Stop being such a cunt" What always makes me laugh is the way some people put their views across very aggressively and then get all precious when somebody tells them they're a moron etc. You can always find good threads to have a decent discussion (if you want one) but the odd meltdown makes for a fantastic read and always great entertainment to the more level headed. If they delete over some pointless disagreement and then inevitably come back, it's just a comedy that keep on giving. Surely this is supposed to be a place of information and discussion but mostly entertainment and passing the time. If you're getting upset and angry whilst you're here, it's perhaps time to find a new hobby (but please don't as i like to laugh at it)
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Post by harryburrows on Jul 6, 2014 19:07:34 GMT
I've never been daft enough to ref, I know I'd be shit and would end up getting knocked out! you are a young cocky sod though
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Post by bayernoatcake on Jul 6, 2014 19:08:35 GMT
I've never been daft enough to ref, I know I'd be shit and would end up getting knocked out! you are a young cocky sod though I prefer "cheeky".
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Post by Jamo on the wing on Jul 6, 2014 19:08:50 GMT
I'm leaving Friday.
Yours sincerely,
R Crusoe
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Post by MarkWolstanton on Jul 6, 2014 19:11:01 GMT
I like RVD, but I'm not a fan of people announcing they're leaving. Seems a bit 'hey look at me'. Didn't see what happened but RVD doesn't strike me as the type to leave over a bit of abuse. I expect he'll be back soon enough. To be fair to RVD, I don't think he did announce he was leaving. He just deleted his account - not really a "look at me" action at all. He has every right to do it, but I wish he hadn't. I'd rather have lost ************** than RVD - although if ************** comes out with a superb blog after each Stoke game I could change my mind. Somehow, having seen **************'s work I doubt if he can replicate the great stuff RVD produced. Correct John. He didn't make any announcement and as I have pointed out elsewhere he will be re-joining us as the new season gets closer. Tazi will return the moment a relegation threat emerges. There must be more to people's lives than to analyse football message board behaviour, surely? Perhaps we need a real professional opinion.
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Post by Beardy200 on Jul 6, 2014 19:11:07 GMT
I'm leaving Friday. Yours sincerely, R Crusoe You can just about keep your coat off with that one Jamo. Well done fella.
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Post by Jamo on the wing on Jul 6, 2014 19:14:35 GMT
I'm leaving Friday. Yours sincerely, R Crusoe You can just about keep your coat off with that one Jamo. Well done fella. See this is the kind of abuse that keeps me off the board.
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Post by SneydGreenStokie on Jul 6, 2014 19:18:04 GMT
I enjoy calling people cunts, and I have no problem in being called one either as it is a fact. Anyone who deletes their account because someone has upset them is a handbag swinging gayer and that is another fact. H See yer sparring partner Tazi has deleted his account RAF I hope you have read and understood the meaning of this thread and cease to throw cheap insults , and swap for actually using reasons to support your opinion on something as opposed to basing it on fresh air. We all live in hope SGS
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Post by Deleted on Jul 6, 2014 19:18:34 GMT
I enjoy calling people cunts, and I have no problem in being called one either as it is a fact. Anyone who deletes their account because someone has upset them is a handbag swinging gayer and that is another fact. H
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Post by Beardy200 on Jul 6, 2014 19:23:02 GMT
See yer sparring partner Tazi has deleted his account RAF I hope you have read and understood the meaning of this thread and cease to throw cheap insults , and swap for actually using reasons to support your opinion on something as opposed to basing it on fresh air. We all live in hope SGS Now that's exactly the sort of unnecessary, antagonising and argument-inviting response that's going to bring harmony to the board. You're such an arse but i do find you very entertaining I think you're probably the type he wants rid of but i don't
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Post by salopstick on Jul 6, 2014 19:24:10 GMT
its not the abuse of personal insults that are the problem , ive put forward a few of my thoughts on occasions and been subjected to some pretty biting sarcasm & contempt by the same few people . im grown up enough to stand my corner but it would make me think twice again before voicing an opinion I'm very sorry Harry.
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Post by werrington on Jul 6, 2014 19:24:41 GMT
See yer sparring partner Tazi has deleted his account RAF I hope you have read and understood the meaning of this thread and cease to throw cheap insults , and swap for actually using reasons to support your opinion on something as opposed to basing it on fresh air. We all live in hope SGS I discuss and offer my views with everybody else on here You are the only one I insult because of your aggressive manner SGS .....everybody else I don't have a problem with as you preach and don't discuss Stop that and so will I
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Post by Deleted on Jul 6, 2014 19:28:15 GMT
I got banned for calling someone a cunt, i feel like Andrew Strauss over here. I mean can you believe that, i mean can you actually believe that! I feel like Victor Meldrew over here. I was also molested by Rolf Harris LIVE on TV! I mean can you actually believe that, i mean, can you actually believe that! I can! In the image of Gods, this calls for a...
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Post by SneydGreenStokie on Jul 6, 2014 19:28:31 GMT
I hope you have read and understood the meaning of this thread and cease to throw cheap insults , and swap for actually using reasons to support your opinion on something as opposed to basing it on fresh air. We all live in hope SGS I discuss and offer my views with everybody else on here You are the only one I insult because of your aggressive manner SGS .....everybody else I don't have a problem with as you preach and don't discuss Stop that and so will I No preaching here. I have my opinion to a post of your based on facts. You threw insults. Your perception of aggression is your perception, therefore, your problem. SGS
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Post by Deleted on Jul 6, 2014 19:31:40 GMT
I got banned for calling someone a cunt, i feel like Andrew Strauss over here. I mean can you believe that, i mean can you actually believe that! I feel like Victor Meldrew over here. I was also molested by Rolf Harris LIVE on TV! I mean can you actually believe that, i mean, can you actually believe that! I can! In the image of Gods, this calls for a... I can believe that yes. Apart from the bit about being banned
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Post by SneydGreenStokie on Jul 6, 2014 19:31:50 GMT
I hope you have read and understood the meaning of this thread and cease to throw cheap insults , and swap for actually using reasons to support your opinion on something as opposed to basing it on fresh air. We all live in hope SGS Now that's exactly the sort of unnecessary, antagonising and argument-inviting response that's going to bring harmony to the board. You're such an arse but i do find you very entertaining I think you're probably the type he wants rid of but i don't Like I have said, I give my opinions. This is a forum. If people don't like what I say, then don't read it or respond. There are some on here I wont even read. That's my choice. Some people believe the posts I submit are aggressive. I aren't sure why they think that but it is their issue, their perception, not mine. Therefore, I wont give it any significant thought. We all have persona's online, mine is different to my actual existence. Those who respond in the way I expect them to, respond because it is their choice. I wont worry about it. SGS
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Post by bigjohnritchie on Jul 6, 2014 19:32:49 GMT
Now lads please lets think positive. Forgive and forget. Move on. Out of interest is there any guidance on the standsrds of what is and is not acceptable on the Oatcake and the role of the Moderators?
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