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Post by stokeyagro on Sept 27, 2011 7:49:37 GMT
WHY IS LIFE SO FUCKING CRUEL
Lost my little brother last night hung his self in gearge an dragon pub (my dads pub) just cant beleave life can be so shit at times.
my heads up my ass
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Post by redsaturday on Sept 27, 2011 7:58:47 GMT
Thats shit mate, sorry for your loss
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Post by stokeyagro on Sept 27, 2011 8:04:29 GMT
still not sunk in mate my dad had to kick door down then cut him down. went pub last night all iron market blocked off went in pub my dad mum sisters uncles screaming etc never want anyone go thru what i went thru last night.
I feel bad now not seeing him when they bought him down everyone on my back to go say good byes
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Post by redsaturday on Sept 27, 2011 8:15:36 GMT
still not sunk in mate my dad had to kick door down then cut him down. went pub last night all iron market blocked off went in pub my dad mum sisters uncles screaming etc never want anyone go thru what i went thru last night. I feel bad now not seeing him when they bought him down everyone on my back to go say good byes I can't say I know what your going through, just do what you think is right not what anyone else says, people grieve differently |
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Post by marra315 on Sept 27, 2011 8:22:55 GMT
you need time to get to grips with it mate , you will say your goodbye when you are ready . i have been in a situation so can understand what you are going through .do what you need to do in your own time , dont be scared to ask for help or support you will find both not to far away ,thoughts are with you all x
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Post by stokeyagro on Sept 27, 2011 9:06:08 GMT
Thanks guys .im off to my dads now see how hes doing see laters lads
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Post by stokiefromhaslo on Sept 27, 2011 9:07:11 GMT
Sorry to hear about your loss pal.
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Post by miltonstokie on Sept 27, 2011 9:49:25 GMT
All the best mate
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Post by Squeekster on Sept 27, 2011 10:33:26 GMT
Sorry about that mate i had a similar thing with my mum when they said she was brain dead and they had to turn the life support off,we were all in the room but i had to leave as i couldn't watch her die.
I dealt with it in my way best i could and you whats best for you mate.
Keep strong mate.
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Post by worstgolfer on Sept 27, 2011 10:39:35 GMT
sorry to hear about this puts things back into perspective when we argue about football ffs
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Post by silverdalestokie on Sept 27, 2011 10:40:59 GMT
Fuck me mate.... The George is my pub of choice when I get permission to get out  Take it Daves your old man? And Nina ur mum (stepmum). Nowt I say will make things any better but pass on my condolences (they know me as smiler) |
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Post by lew86 on Sept 27, 2011 11:18:15 GMT
That's just crazy mate, couldn't comprehend what you're going through. All the best to you and your family lad, keep your head up.
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Post by frasier45 on Sept 27, 2011 11:53:14 GMT
Sorry for your horrific loss mate
Its totally understandable for you not to want to see your brother like that
I'm sure there's better pictures in your mind to cherish
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Post by stokeyagro on Sept 27, 2011 12:35:32 GMT
Fuck me mate.... The George is my pub of choice when I get permission to get out Take it Daves your old man? And Nina ur mum (stepmum). Nowt I say will make things any better but pass on my condolences (they know me as smiler) yes maTE dave my dad just got back hes not well at all |
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Post by silverdalestokie on Sept 27, 2011 12:41:32 GMT
I bet.. He was in pieces last Friday after his visit to the vets :-(
No words will make any of you feel any better especially so soon afterwards.
Chin up mate and be there for each other....
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Post by mistersausage on Sept 27, 2011 13:24:51 GMT
Fuck me that's horrible mate. Can't even begin to think how you must be feeling. Numb I'd expect.
Condolences to you and yours for what it's worth.
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Post by swampySCFC on Sept 27, 2011 13:34:56 GMT
Terrible news. RIP
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Post by littlestokie1 on Sept 27, 2011 13:35:12 GMT
thoughts are with you went through a similar thing 4 years back ,still think about it every day but in time you learn to cope . all here for u x
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Post by mermaidsal on Sept 27, 2011 13:38:03 GMT
agro I'm so sorry mate, this is awful news, about the worst you can get.
Anything at all we can do please just say or PM me.
xxxx
Sally
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Post by supersmashinggreat on Sept 27, 2011 17:12:40 GMT
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Post by stokeyagro on Sept 27, 2011 17:55:42 GMT
omg..i feel for ya mate .....im still shocked my sister flew in from irland this morning she really poorly .we just cant get our heads round it why he did this .he knew he could of come mine or mums or kara house just thort of him up stairs for 3 hours on his own when all police were up stairs. everyone screaming crying in pub.god help us when we berry him .we berried my other brother 4 years a go he was my step brother he hung his self his dad killed his mum berried her in back garden in maybank. |
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Post by captainsmith on Sept 27, 2011 17:59:30 GMT
Sorry to hear this awful news. My condolences to you and yours.
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Post by Adster on Sept 27, 2011 20:37:57 GMT
absolutely gutted to hear about all this, it certainly puts things into perspective.
today would have been me dads 62nd birthday and he has been dead 8 years now, and also the 4th anniversary of me grandad dying,.
just deal with it best you can,
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Post by swampySCFC on Sept 27, 2011 22:29:17 GMT
This is all getting a bit deep for me  |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 28, 2011 1:48:44 GMT
When I remember my brother I think of the good times we had , not the bad
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Post by localloser on Sept 28, 2011 18:32:10 GMT
Agro mate: you've had such a terrible shock that all your rational thought processes have shut down - and no wonder. You can't possibly make sense of things or even begin to come to terms with such a dreadful thing so soon.
When you are ready to talk to someone, can I respectfully suggest you give the Samaritans a call. 01782 213555 is their number and they are there 24/7. They helped me a long time ago when I was going through a bad time.
For now, though, its just a question of getting though each day one at a time, and being there for each other as a family. Try not to blame anyone, as blaming leads to arguments and it won't bring the lad back. Just help each other through this. And if you need to let off steam, there's plenty of folks on here who are on your side. Your GP may also be a useful source of support as well.
All the very best pal
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Post by Huddysleftfoot on Sept 28, 2011 20:31:25 GMT
Shocking news Agro, thoughts are with you and yours.
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Post by steino72 on Sept 28, 2011 20:36:17 GMT
Sorry to hear your awful news stokeyagro, RIP your bro  |
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Post by firingsquad on Sept 28, 2011 20:49:00 GMT
my brother did the same thing a few years back the only thing i,d suggest is you deal with it your way not how everyone expects you to
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Post by StokieBoy31 on Sept 28, 2011 21:05:51 GMT
sorry to hear off your loss awful news R.I.P to your brother |
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