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Post by bostedclog on Nov 26, 2009 19:15:50 GMT
Do your own research Beardy. Another thing I do know is that the board IS being monitored by Pro Boards due to certain complaints about this site.One complaint has already been publicly been posted by sylar.See above which in a previous post you said you know nothing about it liar liar You are wrong again as Ive only just been told about it. Every time you storm in and get it WRONG . ;D
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Post by Beardy200 on Nov 26, 2009 19:16:24 GMT
You say the EXACT things i'm mocking. Fetch the links then and let's see what the charges are and what sort of thing has been going on. You can't just say stuff like that and expect it to mean anything without at least SOME specifics. As i said, give me an example of some serious bullying on HERE you think would be worthy of court. Do your own research Beardy. Another thing I do know is that the board IS being monitored by Pro Boards due to certain complaints about this site.One complaint has already been publicly been posted by sylar.See above I'm not into research mate, you know that. If you want to prove something to me you'll at least have to link them i'm afraid. As i said, i'm not really that interested in Proboard rules and i'd be surprised if one complaint from someone who runs a competitive board would be taken that seriously anyway. If there are loads then no doubt Proboards will investigate, be in touch with Admin and tell them to sort it out. When that day comes i'll sure we'll be informed of why new rules are being brought in. UNTIL that day comes i really don't see what all the fuss is about and you still haven't told me what you think is "serious bullying" on here that you seem to think happens on a daily basis. Can't be that hard to find an example can it?
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Post by bostedclog on Nov 26, 2009 19:21:33 GMT
Sal I only came back on here the other day to say what I had to say about Matty.I feel a little responsible about the recent outburst and I suppose have made your life on here a little unpleasant tbh.I was only trying to help out a little but it so in the interest of everyone's sanity Ill leave you all to it .Im not deleting or throwing my dummy out of the pram just that the way of the board is too deep rooted and is not going to change .Ever.Ill stick to the footy side for a while..
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Post by buxtop on Nov 26, 2009 19:24:20 GMT
You say the EXACT things i'm mocking. Fetch the links then and let's see what the charges are and what sort of thing has been going on. You can't just say stuff like that and expect it to mean anything without at least SOME specifics. As i said, give me an example of some serious bullying on HERE you think would be worthy of court. Do your own research Beardy. Another thing I do know is that the board IS being monitored by Pro Boards due to certain complaints about this site.One complaint has already been publicly been posted by sylar.See above But has anything happened? Read the paragraph by the blue star. And why did Rodney post this then?
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Post by Northy on Nov 26, 2009 19:25:38 GMT
SALLY, ;)I don't post much nowadays. This is no reflection on your good self. ;D But Sally and there is a But In a simalar vein to Northwich, I don't want to go on to a thread that looks good. And then to see it's full of kids posting vulgar obsene homosexusual muslim loving crap. Depends what type of loving it is, if it's heterosexual I'm OK with it, as long as it's not on about the sweetcorn shell store
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Post by bostedclog on Nov 26, 2009 19:26:54 GMT
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Post by Brick-Top on Nov 26, 2009 19:27:13 GMT
I want nipples
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Post by Beardy200 on Nov 26, 2009 19:29:46 GMT
I will but only if you promise me it goes into some specifics that you could directly compare to what's going on on here. If you think there is then i'll dive in now.
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Post by SuperRickyFuller on Nov 26, 2009 19:30:06 GMT
Do your own research Beardy. Another thing I do know is that the board IS being monitored by Pro Boards due to certain complaints about this site.One complaint has already been publicly been posted by sylar.See above But has anything happened? Read the paragraph by the blue star. And why did Rodney post this then? Because he's a kid who thinks he's funny yet he's nothing short of a tool
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Post by b34ts on Nov 26, 2009 19:31:46 GMT
christ this is exactly what we don't want, its boring as shit and if bosted decides he doesn't like it how it is then he can fuck off. He never added anything other than boring threads to the board anyway.
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Post by bostedclog on Nov 26, 2009 19:35:17 GMT
Why is everyone so obsessed with Delilahs and keep quoting from the posts on there.I thought this thread was about The Oatcake and abuse and bullying.Which Im sure Delilahs has a lot less in fact hardly any at all.And why is everyone trying to defend their actions and statements. ??? Listen your Mod started the thread and rightly so instead of trying to solve your problem all you are doing is trying to compare it another forum .Why.?? Very strange.
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Post by Ariel Manto on Nov 26, 2009 19:36:52 GMT
You do it very well for me Sal. Although you can be too soft with the cotton wool brigade.... The only thing Fester has got right over there is banning of politics. WE should do it immediately.... it has to have more freedom than that place to do well and it always has and will I take on board your point here, Frasier. Surely the point, though, is that some are getting away with abuse and name calling on The Oatcake simply by dressing it up as humour - and moreover because they keep on doing it all of the time. No-one is stopping people saying what they think, but a line has to be drawn when some decide to call someone a C**T or whatever because they dare to speak against what the have have said. The irony of all ironies, from reading what you have written, is that some of the most polite, well written and articulate posts get placed on the politics threads - and nobody makes anyone join in nor read them - and it is these that you want banned? Not liking a subject means you have the option not to get involved in the debate. Persistently insulting someone for daring to speak on a subject is quite different. Proboard rules are:- Your web site must conform to the following standards to be eligible to utilize this service:
1. User's content must comply in a manner consistent with any and all applicable laws of the State of California and the US Federal Government. 2. User's web site may not contain content promoting the use of illegal drugs, alcohol, sex, pornography, nudity, or any other form of adult content, profanity, hate, "spam," fraud, racism, mlm, pyramid schemes, or promote any illegal activity. 3. User's message board and Web site must be in English. Those rules are pretty much laid in stone. If any poster on here doesn't agree with any decision made re: abuse then they have the option to get the thing pulled and nobody wants that. It's up to everyone to grow up a bit and not have to rely on Sally to tell them when they've been naughty boys - and run the risk of ruining it for everyone. It's up to you, Sal, to moderate as you see fit. My own view is that if you deem it that someone (of any age) could be offended by abusive behaviour, then initially warn them with an infraction and then if they persist escalate it to a ban - end of. If people cannot grow up and have to resort to such behaviour, then they shouldn't be on here. We want people of all ages and creeds to come on here and enjoy the banter about our club, issues surrounding it and also topical issues of the day. Part of the success of Delilah's site is that abuse is not allowed at all! Any sign of an insult or name-calling immediately gets questioned by admin, and that is a fair way to go. It makes posters think about what and why they are writing, and to be careful in future conduct. Politics isn't allowed, and that's fair enough - admin's call and all that. But on here, it's the same people always doing the name-calling! The subject matter tends to largely be irrelevant.
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Post by bostedclog on Nov 26, 2009 19:37:29 GMT
christ this is exactly what we don't want, its boring as shit and if bosted decides he doesn't like it how it is then he can fuck off. He never added anything other than boring threads to the board anyway. Says another poster who slated the Oatcake and posters when he was on Delilahs.
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Post by french toast on Nov 26, 2009 19:39:10 GMT
im right bosted as usual.
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Post by mermaidsal on Nov 26, 2009 19:39:27 GMT
Bullying.
This is so subjective that it has to be up to the victim to report it, mods can't possibly get into everyone's heads or read every single post. All reports will be taken seriously (if they not obvious pisstakes), treated in total confidence and action will follow.
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Post by french toast on Nov 26, 2009 19:40:32 GMT
Why is everyone so obsessed with Delilahs and keep quoting from the posts on there.I thought this thread was about The Oatcake and abuse and bullying.Which Im sure Delilahs has a lot less in fact hardly any at all.And why is everyone trying to defend their actions and statements. ??? Listen your Mod started the thread and rightly so instead of trying to solve your problem all you are doing is trying to compare it another forum .Why.?? Very strange. not in a clique though??
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Post by b34ts on Nov 26, 2009 19:40:41 GMT
who gives a shit, i slated posters, ilford, admin, who gives a fuck.Of course i'm not going to say the oatcake is a better place than delilahs on there, It was the last place i could post.But we all know delilahs is basically a website dedicated to trying compete with the oatcake, and it never will. Its shit with no atmosphere, mainly because you and rocket talk like a bunch of boring bumbandits.
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Post by buxtop on Nov 26, 2009 19:42:16 GMT
Why is everyone so obsessed with Delilahs and keep quoting from the posts on there.I thought this thread was about The Oatcake and abuse and bullying.Which Im sure Delilahs has a lot less in fact hardly any at all.And why is everyone trying to defend their actions and statements. ??? Listen your Mod started the thread and rightly so instead of trying to solve your problem all you are doing is trying to compare it another forum .Why.?? Very strange. So bullying is allowed over there and you let it carry on with out saying a word. I'm just highlighting that fact about that grasser and the outcome of the complaint.
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Post by SuperRickyFuller on Nov 26, 2009 19:42:28 GMT
who gives a shit, i slated posters, ilford, admin, who gives a fuck.Of course i'm not going to say the oatcake is a better place than delilahs on there, It was the last place i could post.But we all know delilahs is basically a website dedicated to trying compete with the oatcake, and it never will. Its shit with no atmosphere, mainly because you and rocket talk like a bunch of boring bumbandits. Do you fancy adding BumBandits to the GDB Dictionary? ;D
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Post by yyydelilahxxx on Nov 26, 2009 19:44:32 GMT
arguments, insults etc on here should be taken lightly... PHW's and rimmers should all turn up for a real life debate before the match with their name badges on, they would all end up buying each other a pint and giving each other love and karma ;D it's fine as it is imo keep up the good work sal
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Post by bostedclog on Nov 26, 2009 19:45:22 GMT
Bullying. This is so subjective that it has to be up to the victim to report it, mods can't possibly get into everyone's heads or read every single post. All reports will be taken seriously (if they not obvious pisstakes), treated in total confidence and action will follow. Thats how it should be Sal but in reality on here it doesn't work like that does it.?
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Post by b34ts on Nov 26, 2009 19:46:01 GMT
arguments, insults etc on here should be taken lightly... PHW's and rimmers should all turn up for a real life debate before the match with their name badges on, they would all end up buying each other a pint and giving each other love and karma ;D it's fine as it is imo keep up the good work sal I think me and you should get a bit closer.Like inside eachother.
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Post by Beardy200 on Nov 26, 2009 19:51:00 GMT
1st one - There is a physical assault involved. Not aware of any on here. 2nd one - Death threats. Haven't seen any on here, not to other posters anyway. 3rd one - Somebody being nice to someone to lure someone in to an online relationship on the net, learning intimate secrets and then telling them to her friends. Haven't seen that on here. 4th one - Sexual attack. Not aware of any on here. Last one - 13 year old girl involved and i've already said with the little kids you have to be a bit more careful. So i'd say none of those are EXACTLY like the things i was "mocking", would you? I'm mocking grown men getting pissy become somebody calls them a prick or whatever. 99% of the time on here it's all in jest and everybody knows it. If you searched for the other 1% they are a handful here and there whilst you'd have us believe it was rife and there are people leaving in their droves or not joining because of it. Personally i don't agree.
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Post by SuperRickyFuller on Nov 26, 2009 19:51:11 GMT
Bullying. This is so subjective that it has to be up to the victim to report it, mods can't possibly get into everyone's heads or read every single post. All reports will be taken seriously (if they not obvious pisstakes), treated in total confidence and action will follow. Thats how it should be Sal but in reality on here it doesn't work like that does it.? It's a little hard though Bosted when there's only 2 Mods on here actually doing anything. They can't be expected to sift through all the posts everyday when they've got their own lives to be running That's one thing that's made Mark and Sals jobs a lot harder, very little or zero support from the mysterious Admin. I mean, who is Admin? No wonder no-one actually asks this mysterious person anymore because we don't know who it is and we very rarely get a reply
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Post by Beardy200 on Nov 26, 2009 19:56:54 GMT
Bullying. This is so subjective that it has to be up to the victim to report it, mods can't possibly get into everyone's heads or read every single post. All reports will be taken seriously (if they not obvious pisstakes), treated in total confidence and action will follow. And here "should" endeth the lesson. A few seem to think that others may have been victimised so much they won't even have the will-power to do that.
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Post by Ariel Manto on Nov 26, 2009 19:57:45 GMT
Bullying. This is so subjective that it has to be up to the victim to report it, mods can't possibly get into everyone's heads or read every single post. All reports will be taken seriously (if they not obvious pisstakes), treated in total confidence and action will follow. So, just to clarify the official admin position (and by no means being picky), if you deem something as a joke, despite someone being insulted by it, then nothing will be done?
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Post by bostedclog on Nov 26, 2009 19:59:33 GMT
Why is everyone so obsessed with Delilahs and keep quoting from the posts on there.I thought this thread was about The Oatcake and abuse and bullying.Which Im sure Delilahs has a lot less in fact hardly any at all.And why is everyone trying to defend their actions and statements. ??? Listen your Mod started the thread and rightly so instead of trying to solve your problem all you are doing is trying to compare it another forum .Why.?? Very strange. So bullying is allowed over there and you let it carry on with out saying a word. I'm just highlighting that fact about that grasser and the outcome of the complaint. I said hardly ever in my time on there there has been NO bullying to members and very little abuse only one minor infraction
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Post by bostedclog on Nov 26, 2009 20:00:37 GMT
As usual, attacking the poster, and not the subject matter. Nothing ever changes does it.?
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Post by Northy on Nov 26, 2009 20:01:10 GMT
This maths test can predict your all time most watched film. Mine was Star Wars.
Try it without looking at the answers.
It works!
Pick a number from 1 - 9.
Multiply by 3.
Add 3, then multiply by 3 again.
You will get your answer by adding the two digits together to find your all time favorite movie.
Good Luck
It is:
1. Gone with the wind.
2. Aliens.
3. Oliver
4. Star Wars
5. Forrest Gump.
6. Saving Private Ryan.
7. Jaws.
8. Grease.
9. The joy of Anal Sex with male goats & leather clad gay boys.
10. Mary Poppins.
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Post by Beardy200 on Nov 26, 2009 20:01:24 GMT
Bullying. This is so subjective that it has to be up to the victim to report it, mods can't possibly get into everyone's heads or read every single post. All reports will be taken seriously (if they not obvious pisstakes), treated in total confidence and action will follow. So, just to clarify the official admin position (and by no means being picky), if you deem something as a joke, despite someone being insulted by it, then nothing will be done? No. She means, for example, if me or Beb complain by PM it'll be an obvious piss-take. Nice try though.
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