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Post by thehartshillbadger on Feb 22, 2022 19:43:10 GMT
So it’s been a while. How’s everyone getting on? Not long till spring now🤞🏻 Personally, my mrs still hasn’t moved out as she’s waiting for her new house to be finished, right pain in the arse, although she’s not here that much. We had a “heart to heart” the other night as she thought I was already seeing someone else, chance would be a fine thing!🤣. I’m taking a sabbatical from women for a while, it’s good for the soul. Thankfully we thrashed a few things out and think we’re both good on what we want. It’s been very tough though I won’t lie. Having friends to rally around has been a big pick me up. Remember to talk to friends, family, work colleagues if you’re having a tough time, works absolute wonders. Good luck all, hope everybody is well. PM me for a laugh if you want😉
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Post by partickpotter on Feb 22, 2022 19:48:10 GMT
So it’s been a while. How’s everyone getting on? Not long till spring now🤞🏻 Personally, my mrs still hasn’t moved out as she’s waiting for her new house to be finished, right pain in the arse, although she’s not here that much. We had a “heart to heart” the other night as she thought I was already seeing someone else, chance would be a fine thing!🤣. I’m taking a sabbatical from women for a while, it’s good for the soul. Thankfully we thrashed a few things out and think we’re both good on what we want. It’s been very tough though I won’t lie. Having friends to rally around has been a big pick me up. Remember to talk to friends, family, work colleagues if you’re having a tough time, works absolute wonders. Good luck all, hope everybody is well. PM me for a laugh if you want😉 Was out for a walk with my daughter this evening along the River Kelvin. Chewing the fat about this, that and the other. We touched on the subject of her mother, my ex, for a moment. Then both of us went… naaaaah. There’s better things in life to spend time on. And there is. Life is simply awesome. So much to do. So many things to enjoy. Don’t dwell on the things that haven’t worked out. Look for something that lifts your soul.
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Post by thehartshillbadger on Feb 22, 2022 19:50:14 GMT
So it’s been a while. How’s everyone getting on? Not long till spring now🤞🏻 Personally, my mrs still hasn’t moved out as she’s waiting for her new house to be finished, right pain in the arse, although she’s not here that much. We had a “heart to heart” the other night as she thought I was already seeing someone else, chance would be a fine thing!🤣. I’m taking a sabbatical from women for a while, it’s good for the soul. Thankfully we thrashed a few things out and think we’re both good on what we want. It’s been very tough though I won’t lie. Having friends to rally around has been a big pick me up. Remember to talk to friends, family, work colleagues if you’re having a tough time, works absolute wonders. Good luck all, hope everybody is well. PM me for a laugh if you want😉 Was out for a walk with my daughter this evening along the River Kelvin. Chewing the fat about this, that and the other. We touched on the subject of her mother, my ex, for a moment. Then both of us went… naaaaah. There’s better things in life to spend time on. And there is. Life is simply awesome. So much to do. So many things to enjoy. Don’t dwell on the things that haven’t worked out. Look for something that lifts your soul. Exactly mate. I learned long ago that life doesn’t revolve around other people. As harsh as that seems, number one is the most important. After that the rest takes care of itself. Sort of😏
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Post by Orbs on Feb 22, 2022 20:18:06 GMT
Sage advice there lads. Top stuff. Reading about Joey Beauchamp the other day made me think about this thread. A few twitter messages about his unfortunate passing alluded to mental health. This macho/lad culture hasn’t helped blokes (particularly youngish blokes) talk about their feelings/worries. Fortunately, there’s help out there if you just reach out or talk to a mate.
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Post by thehartshillbadger on Apr 13, 2022 17:52:44 GMT
So after the split with the Mrs a few months back it’s been an up and down time tbh. Not ashamed to say I had a real wobble last weekend and basically stayed like a hermit inside my house getting drunk on my own all weekend. I ignored invites to go out or made excuses as I just couldn’t face trying to be happy in the company of other happy people. So I reached out to a couple of mates (who are normally the biggest piss taking bastards on earth) and they were brillliant with there support, really lifted my mood. It’s never easy when you’re down, you just keep beating yourself up thinking about what could have been or what you could have done different. But things happen for a reason sometimes which you cannot control. What you can control is how you act upon it. I urge everybody who is feeling down, no matter what the reason, to reach out to friends and family even if you’ve not spoken to them for ages. It’ll make you feel instantly better. Summer is around the corner everyone and after the last couple of years it’s absolutely vital everybody makes the absolute most of it. Good luck people👍🏻
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Post by mickmillslovechild on Apr 13, 2022 18:15:02 GMT
So after the split with the Mrs a few months back it’s been an up and down time tbh. Not ashamed to say I had a real wobble last weekend and basically stayed like a hermit inside my house getting drunk on my own all weekend. I ignored invites to go out or made excuses as I just couldn’t face trying to be happy in the company of other happy people. So I reached out to a couple of mates (who are normally the biggest piss taking bastards on earth) and they were brillliant with there support, really lifted my mood. It’s never easy when you’re down, you just keep beating yourself up thinking about what could have been or what you could have done different. But things happen for a reason sometimes which you cannot control. What you can control is how you act upon it. I urge everybody who is feeling down, no matter what the reason, to reach out to friends and family even if you’ve not spoken to them for ages. It’ll make you feel instantly better. Summer is around the corner everyone and after the last couple of years it’s absolutely vital everybody makes the absolute most of it. Good luck people👍🏻 Good post badge and important for those of us who aren't in need of support at any given time to reach out to our friends who are. Just one "You alright mate" text only takes seconds to send and can make a huge difference to the recipient. Keep battling on mate. Cliche i know, but things do get better and hopefully tomorrow you can invite those mates round to join you in a celebratory drink rather doing it alone. All the best
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Post by Pedropotter on Apr 13, 2022 18:22:39 GMT
So after the split with the Mrs a few months back it’s been an up and down time tbh. Not ashamed to say I had a real wobble last weekend and basically stayed like a hermit inside my house getting drunk on my own all weekend. I ignored invites to go out or made excuses as I just couldn’t face trying to be happy in the company of other happy people. So I reached out to a couple of mates (who are normally the biggest piss taking bastards on earth) and they were brillliant with there support, really lifted my mood. It’s never easy when you’re down, you just keep beating yourself up thinking about what could have been or what you could have done different. But things happen for a reason sometimes which you cannot control. What you can control is how you act upon it. I urge everybody who is feeling down, no matter what the reason, to reach out to friends and family even if you’ve not spoken to them for ages. It’ll make you feel instantly better. Summer is around the corner everyone and after the last couple of years it’s absolutely vital everybody makes the absolute most of it. Good luck people👍🏻 Quite possibly the best post ever. I’ve just discovered this thread. I didn’t know it existed. The last 8 months have been the toughest of my life, and I know this thread would have helped. I’m going to read it from the start……..
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Post by thehartshillbadger on Apr 13, 2022 18:34:48 GMT
So after the split with the Mrs a few months back it’s been an up and down time tbh. Not ashamed to say I had a real wobble last weekend and basically stayed like a hermit inside my house getting drunk on my own all weekend. I ignored invites to go out or made excuses as I just couldn’t face trying to be happy in the company of other happy people. So I reached out to a couple of mates (who are normally the biggest piss taking bastards on earth) and they were brillliant with there support, really lifted my mood. It’s never easy when you’re down, you just keep beating yourself up thinking about what could have been or what you could have done different. But things happen for a reason sometimes which you cannot control. What you can control is how you act upon it. I urge everybody who is feeling down, no matter what the reason, to reach out to friends and family even if you’ve not spoken to them for ages. It’ll make you feel instantly better. Summer is around the corner everyone and after the last couple of years it’s absolutely vital everybody makes the absolute most of it. Good luck people👍🏻 Quite possibly the best post ever. I’ve just discovered this thread. I didn’t know it existed. The last 8 months have been the toughest of my life, and I know this thread would have helped. I’m going to read it from the start…….. Steady on mate it wasn’t that good🤣 Enjoy the thread👍🏻
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Post by Pedropotter on Apr 13, 2022 19:48:34 GMT
Quite possibly the best post ever. I’ve just discovered this thread. I didn’t know it existed. The last 8 months have been the toughest of my life, and I know this thread would have helped. I’m going to read it from the start…….. Steady on mate it wasn’t that good🤣 Enjoy the thread👍🏻 Sometimes a post just strikes a chord. 🙂👍🏼
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Post by thehartshillbadger on Apr 13, 2022 20:13:03 GMT
Steady on mate it wasn’t that good🤣 Enjoy the thread👍🏻 Sometimes a post just strikes a chord. 🙂👍🏼 Glad it’s possibly helped you👍🏻
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Post by partickpotter on Apr 13, 2022 20:13:13 GMT
So after the split with the Mrs a few months back it’s been an up and down time tbh. Not ashamed to say I had a real wobble last weekend and basically stayed like a hermit inside my house getting drunk on my own all weekend. I ignored invites to go out or made excuses as I just couldn’t face trying to be happy in the company of other happy people. So I reached out to a couple of mates (who are normally the biggest piss taking bastards on earth) and they were brillliant with there support, really lifted my mood. It’s never easy when you’re down, you just keep beating yourself up thinking about what could have been or what you could have done different. But things happen for a reason sometimes which you cannot control. What you can control is how you act upon it. I urge everybody who is feeling down, no matter what the reason, to reach out to friends and family even if you’ve not spoken to them for ages. It’ll make you feel instantly better. Summer is around the corner everyone and after the last couple of years it’s absolutely vital everybody makes the absolute most of it. Good luck people👍🏻 I was just about to start writing something about life being a twisty road, but remembered someone had already done it and way better than I ever could… Fits you, and me, to a T… The road is long With many a winding turn That leads us to who knows where Who knows where But I'm strong Strong enough to carry him He ain't heavy, he's my brother Etc etc etc… One thing about having to deal with shit in our lives, we really get to understand what some classic tunes are really all about. Which is handy on karaoke nights!
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Post by partickpotter on Apr 13, 2022 20:19:21 GMT
Like this wee gem from Manchester’s finest…
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Post by metalhead on Apr 14, 2022 21:08:35 GMT
It's ok to be human and vulnerable. Things can take a real quick downward spiral and then you're in an uncomfortable place. I've been there.
Never really talked about this other than to a few individuals, but the moment I look back on the most is when something snapped in me a few years ago. I was going through a fairly horrific post-breakup meltdown. I don't remember exactly what it was but I was on the edge and it was only a matter of time, so I packed my bag and was on the way to the train station. I had no idea where I was going or what I was doing. I just needed to get away. My sister arrived in her car as I was walking to the station, told me to get in and took me home. The next day, the drive to work, I genuinely can't remember it... A complete blur. I got into work and was sent home after about 15 mins. I was rushed into a specialist and told I'd lost it and suffered a breakdown.
Sometimes you have to go through something like that, to come out of the other end. I still have my low moments, we all do... but I'm l able to put most things into context.
Be kind to yourself. You're human.
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Post by chuffedstokie on Apr 14, 2022 21:40:07 GMT
Coming up to a rather inglorious anniversary Easter Saturday. Three years ago a voice inside said it would be OK to have a drink while away for the weekend here in Wales. (just before moving here). 9 days later I came to in Aberystwyth hospital intensive care although I didn't know that at the time. I'd had a cardiac arrest in the road outside my digs, 20 minutes cpr and zapped twice, once again in the ambulance during a journey of about 50 minutes. It turns out that during the induced coma period I had 7 heart attacks. I became separated from my wife 10 years ago and as it happens she's recently found someone else who's moving in with her. It's my sons wedding in August in Northern Ireland which should be wonderful, think I'm pretty fortunate to be able to go. I've been dead, no bright lights and music, that's it. I'd been dry for just over 2 years before that drink, needless to say I don't touch the stuff any more, makes you grateful for what you've got.
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Post by metalhead on Apr 14, 2022 22:05:29 GMT
Coming up to a rather inglorious anniversary Easter Saturday. Three years ago a voice inside said it would be OK to have a drink while away for the weekend here in Wales. (just before moving here). 9 days later I came to in Aberystwyth hospital intensive care although I didn't know that at the time. I'd had a cardiac arrest in the road outside my digs, 20 minutes cpr and zapped twice, once again in the ambulance during a journey of about 50 minutes. It turns out that during the induced coma period I had 7 heart attacks. I became separated from my wife 10 years ago and as it happens she's recently found someone else who's moving in with her. It's my sons wedding in August in Northern Ireland which should be wonderful, think I'm pretty fortunate to be able to go. I've been dead, no bright lights and music, that's it. I'd been dry for just over 2 years before that drink, needless to say I don't touch the stuff any more, makes you grateful for what you've got. Seriously powerful stuff. Did they definitely link your heart attacks to alcohol? It is a serious message to everyone out there.
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Post by chuffedstokie on Apr 14, 2022 22:15:03 GMT
Coming up to a rather inglorious anniversary Easter Saturday. Three years ago a voice inside said it would be OK to have a drink while away for the weekend here in Wales. (just before moving here). 9 days later I came to in Aberystwyth hospital intensive care although I didn't know that at the time. I'd had a cardiac arrest in the road outside my digs, 20 minutes cpr and zapped twice, once again in the ambulance during a journey of about 50 minutes. It turns out that during the induced coma period I had 7 heart attacks. I became separated from my wife 10 years ago and as it happens she's recently found someone else who's moving in with her. It's my sons wedding in August in Northern Ireland which should be wonderful, think I'm pretty fortunate to be able to go. I've been dead, no bright lights and music, that's it. I'd been dry for just over 2 years before that drink, needless to say I don't touch the stuff any more, makes you grateful for what you've got. Seriously powerful stuff. Did they definitely link your heart attacks to alcohol? It is a serious message to everyone out there. They did, I'd been having seizures (about once a year) if I had too much and then again when I tried to stop so when I'd stopped for a long time it didn't take much to trip the system again. Let's just say that after that series of events it was sufficient incentive to leave well alone for good. I'd been a rep for a brewery and a wine and spirits company back in the late 80's and early 90's no problem but I let the problem take over unfortunately it took a while for me to accept the link.
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Post by cobhamstokey on Apr 14, 2022 22:31:25 GMT
I’ve just been reading the last few posts and I have to say it takes balls to open up and say how your feeling even on a footy message board.
It’s really heartbreaking / heartwarming reading Badger, Metal and Chuffed’s posts.
Life’s so fragile and can come tumbling down so quickly. Reading your posts makes you realise how important family and friends are and we should never take them for granted (even though we do sometimes).
We’re all different in so many ways but all vulnerable though sometimes won’t admit it as we don’t like to show that side to us. We just like to “deal” with heartbreak, grief and loss in our own way because we’re men.
I’ve been fortunate to date in that I’ve never reached that level of despair where I’ve not seen a future but I’ve had a couple of occasions where things have got very tough and things have got on top of me mentally. On both occasions I called the Samaritans. More than anything just to talk because I like to keep my private thoughts and life private as I feel like a failure if things aren’t going well. I have to say the 30 minute calls really helped. What the very kind ladies said gave me clarity and the opportunity to offload. It made all the difference. There’s always someone to talk too and if it’s a fear of burdening others the Samaritans are a great organisation to call.
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Post by Orbs on Apr 14, 2022 22:50:31 GMT
Just goes to show that anyone could need some help or someone to talk to at any time doesn’t it. It’s obviously not easy but there’s plenty of help and support out there. Could also be that quick phone call or text to a mate you haven’t heard from in a while.
A quick check-in could make all the difference.
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Post by metalhead on Apr 15, 2022 6:22:26 GMT
I’ve just been reading the last few posts and I have to say it takes balls to open up and say how your feeling even on a footy message board. It’s really heartbreaking / heartwarming reading Badger, Metal and Chuffed’s posts. Life’s so fragile and can come tumbling down so quickly. Reading your posts makes you realise how important family and friends are and we should never take them for granted (even though we do sometimes). We’re all different in so many ways but all vulnerable though sometimes won’t admit it as we don’t like to show that side to us. We just like to “deal” with heartbreak, grief and loss in our own way because we’re men. I’ve been fortunate to date in that I’ve never reached that level of despair where I’ve not seen a future but I’ve had a couple of occasions where things have got very tough and things have got on top of me mentally. On both occasions I called the Samaritans. More than anything just to talk because I like to keep my private thoughts and life private as I feel like a failure if things aren’t going well. I have to say the 30 minute calls really helped. What the very kind ladies said gave me clarity and the opportunity to offload. It made all the difference. There’s always someone to talk too and if it’s a fear of burdening others the Samaritans are a great organisation to call. One of the hardest things is actually opening up. When you phone someone, you have to talk. I remember being given some flash cards with various phone numbers on. Mental health charities etc. I never called once. It's much easier to just crack on. The problem is, that while sometimes life might 'fix itself', other times it won't. It is those other times where it will just continue to spiral and the cascading effect will just build weight on your back. The one thing I wish I could go back and tell myself during that period is: be kind to myself. I remember being really hard on myself. I had lost a lot of money in the separation and was struggling financially which was something I was incredibly angry about. Drinking, especially before, during and after Stoke games, had become a huge part of my life. I really struggled to embrace any positivity in my life. Work were great and very understanding about my situation, but equally, moving on in 2019 was one of the last dominoes in my recovery. Too much of my personal and professional life had become tangled. It can sometimes take 2-3 years, but you'll get there. I had no faith that I would, but I did.
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Post by cobhamstokey on Apr 15, 2022 6:30:37 GMT
I’ve just been reading the last few posts and I have to say it takes balls to open up and say how your feeling even on a footy message board. It’s really heartbreaking / heartwarming reading Badger, Metal and Chuffed’s posts. Life’s so fragile and can come tumbling down so quickly. Reading your posts makes you realise how important family and friends are and we should never take them for granted (even though we do sometimes). We’re all different in so many ways but all vulnerable though sometimes won’t admit it as we don’t like to show that side to us. We just like to “deal” with heartbreak, grief and loss in our own way because we’re men. I’ve been fortunate to date in that I’ve never reached that level of despair where I’ve not seen a future but I’ve had a couple of occasions where things have got very tough and things have got on top of me mentally. On both occasions I called the Samaritans. More than anything just to talk because I like to keep my private thoughts and life private as I feel like a failure if things aren’t going well. I have to say the 30 minute calls really helped. What the very kind ladies said gave me clarity and the opportunity to offload. It made all the difference. There’s always someone to talk too and if it’s a fear of burdening others the Samaritans are a great organisation to call. One of the hardest things is actually opening up. When you phone someone, you have to talk. I remember being given some flash cards with various phone numbers on. Mental health charities etc. I never called once. It's much easier to just crack on. The problem is, that while sometimes life might 'fix itself', other times it won't. It is those other times where it will just continue to spiral and the cascading effect will just build weight on your back. The one thing I wish I could go back and tell myself during that period is: be kind to myself. I remember being really hard on myself. I had lost a lot of money in the separation and was struggling financially which was something I was incredibly angry about. Drinking, especially before, during and after Stoke games, had become a huge part of my life. I really struggled to embrace any positivity in my life. Work were great and very understanding about my situation, but equally, moving on in 2019 was one of the last dominoes in my recovery. Too much of my personal and professional life had become tangled. It can sometimes take 2-3 years, but you'll get there. I had no faith that I would, but I did. You’re right and I don’t ever pretend to know how hard it must have been. I’ve had counselling for stuff that’s happened outside my personal life and I found that effective but very, very tough. Though it helped ultimately in the end you’re the only person that can get through it. Some people never do sadly. Trauma is an awful thing and those that don’t suffer it need to understand it better. I recently went on a course re recognising it and it was a real eye opener and helped me understand why people may behave in a way that we don’t find acceptable. It’s not an excuse to behave badly but it does explain why it happens and certainly makes you more sympathetic.
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Post by heworksardtho on Apr 15, 2022 19:30:34 GMT
Good Friday is always a bad emotional time for me and sad , 24 years ago on a good Friday on the A34 at Bicester junction 9 M40 a 17 year old lad run out and committed suicide and I was the first person to hit him , never shared this with anyone other than close family and best friends, didn’t have counselling but although totally tragic for him and his family it still haunts me
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Post by thehartshillbadger on Apr 15, 2022 19:33:53 GMT
Good Friday is always a bad emotional time for me and sad , 24 years ago on a good Friday on the A34 at Bicester junction 9 M40 a 17 year old lad run out and committed suicide and I was the first person to hit him , never shared this with anyone other than close family and best friends, didn’t have counselling but although totally tragic for him and his family it still haunts me Kind of feel bad liking that post but it takes real courage to tell people that’s happened in your life. Must have been horrendous, hope you’re ok mate. There’s so much we don’t know about each other on this board and this thread helps us all talk without prejudice and hopefully can help in some way.
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Post by heworksardtho on Apr 15, 2022 19:55:24 GMT
Good Friday is always a bad emotional time for me and sad , 24 years ago on a good Friday on the A34 at Bicester junction 9 M40 a 17 year old lad run out and committed suicide and I was the first person to hit him , never shared this with anyone other than close family and best friends, didn’t have counselling but although totally tragic for him and his family it still haunts me Kind of feel bad liking that post but it takes real courage to tell people that’s happened in your life. Must have been horrendous, hope you’re ok mate. There’s so much we don’t know about each other on this board and this thread helps us all talk without prejudice and hopefully can help in some way. Don’t feel bad mate , shit happens in life
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Post by foster on Apr 15, 2022 21:16:49 GMT
Kind of feel bad liking that post but it takes real courage to tell people that’s happened in your life. Must have been horrendous, hope you’re ok mate. There’s so much we don’t know about each other on this board and this thread helps us all talk without prejudice and hopefully can help in some way. Don’t feel bad mate , shit happens in life I turned off my mums life support and I laid with my ex as she died in my arms of cancer. Life in general is difficut. Enjoy it while you're young and care free. There's not much to look forward to as you get older. You just have to get through the tough times and find new priorities.
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Post by Orbs on Apr 15, 2022 21:49:15 GMT
Don’t feel bad mate , shit happens in life I turned off my mums life support and I laid with my ex as she died in my arms of cancer. Life in general is difficut. Enjoy it while you're young and care free. There's not much to look forward to as you get older. You just have to get through the tough times and find new priorities. Good grief. I wouldn’t even know where to start trying to deal with that Fozzie. You must be a bloody strong person. I hope you got some/are having some help with what you’ve experienced mate.
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Post by foster on Apr 15, 2022 22:05:19 GMT
I turned off my mums life support and I laid with my ex as she died in my arms of cancer. Life in general is difficut. Enjoy it while you're young and care free. There's not much to look forward to as you get older. You just have to get through the tough times and find new priorities. Good grief. I wouldn’t even know where to start trying to deal with that Fozzie. You must be a bloody strong person. I hope you got some/are having some help with what you’ve experienced mate. No help since she died but I've come to terms with the fact that life is never going to be what it was. I'll never have that bond with anyone again. I even feel guilty enjoying basic things like good weather or a nice tv series. Anyway, I focus on my kids and caring for others now. I have 2 kids to raise and that's my focus. Trivial arguments over minute details piss me off.
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Post by noustie on Apr 15, 2022 22:32:05 GMT
Good grief. I wouldn’t even know where to start trying to deal with that Fozzie. You must be a bloody strong person. I hope you got some/are having some help with what you’ve experienced mate. No help since she died but I've come to terms with the fact that life is never going to be what it was. I'll never have that bond with anyone again. I even feel guilty enjoying basic things like good weather or a nice tv series. Anyway, I focus on my kids and caring for others now. I have 2 kids to raise and that's my focus. Trivial arguments over minute details piss me off. It means very little but reading your post I tipped my hat and saluted your priorities.
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Post by metalhead on Apr 16, 2022 7:08:13 GMT
Don’t feel bad mate , shit happens in life I turned off my mums life support and I laid with my ex as she died in my arms of cancer. Life in general is difficut. Enjoy it while you're young and care free. There's not much to look forward to as you get older. You just have to get through the tough times and find new priorities. That is probably the most powerful post I've ever read on this forum. You have a lot more strength than me.
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Post by thehartshillbadger on Apr 16, 2022 7:14:07 GMT
Don’t feel bad mate , shit happens in life I turned off my mums life support and I laid with my ex as she died in my arms of cancer. Life in general is difficut. Enjoy it while you're young and care free. There's not much to look forward to as you get older. You just have to get through the tough times and find new priorities. I remember you talking about your ex before I think, must be the most demoralising situation anyone could imagine and you’ve found the strength to come out of the other side. You also kept a sharp sense of humour. You should be immensely proud of that and the way you’ve supported your kids. I salute you sir
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Post by cobhamstokey on Apr 16, 2022 7:46:49 GMT
Good grief. I wouldn’t even know where to start trying to deal with that Fozzie. You must be a bloody strong person. I hope you got some/are having some help with what you’ve experienced mate. No help since she died but I've come to terms with the fact that life is never going to be what it was. I'll never have that bond with anyone again. I even feel guilty enjoying basic things like good weather or a nice tv series. Anyway, I focus on my kids and caring for others now. I have 2 kids to raise and that's my focus. Trivial arguments over minute details piss me off. You’re a very strong and level headed person that’s clear from your posts. I don’t know you or your family personally but I’ve read enough to know that i’m sure that if there is a heaven your lady would be looking down very proud.
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