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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2019 20:39:03 GMT
Clem you can buy pouches of Purina Gourmet soup..obv. mainly liquid. I did feed this to our puss in the latter days as getting fluids in was important and also some nutrition. She seemed to enjoy them as much was possible. Good luck with whatever you try. Keep us posted. We will certainly try that. Thank you.
At the moment she is eating well (meat and the gravy) - when I say "well" , I mean in comparison to eating virtually nothing.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2019 21:06:21 GMT
After all of what has happened, I think that it may be useful to say to pet owners - try to find an independent vet. Not one that is employed by one the large "chains" of vets. Medivet is one that we know of.
I was chatting with a guy (in real life) a few weeks ago - he runs a Cattery and breeds dogs. He must be quite highly regarded as he also judges some quite high profile dog shows. He explained that whilst these vets are probably extremely good vets, corporate practices exist. They are encouraged to use sales tactics. They often are rewarded with bonuses etc for profitability.
We had been with a vet that was taken over by Medivet when he retired. We stayed with the new "corporate" vet for many years (over ten years), and had no complaints at all. That is until Mimi had the "tail flop" which is when all of this started. We were quoted £200 for each xray and she would need two. If amputation was needed, this would cost £2,000. At this point my wife phoned our dog breeder friend for advice. Hence we are now with this new vet.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 22, 2019 21:31:01 GMT
Taking out pet insurance. Obviously a good idea, but the rates that they are charging now! WOW. Especially if you are insuring more than one animal.
My wife is quite astute, and decided that rather than pay those exorbitant premiums, she started a direct debit for Premium Bonds. The assumption is that a pet will become ill later in life. After fourteen years there is now quite a fund there for vet bills. Unfortunately, we never did win a big prize on the Bonds.
Just something that folks here might like to consider as an option. It is a gamble - but insurance is about gambling really.
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Post by bigjohnritchie on Nov 23, 2019 7:41:43 GMT
Taking out pet insurance. Obviously a good idea, but the rates that they are charging now! WOW. Especially if you are insuring more than one animal. My wife is quite astute, and decided that rather than pay those exorbitant premiums, she started a direct debit for Premium Bonds. The assumption is that a pet will become ill later in life. After fourteen years there is now quite a fund there for vet bills. Unfortunately, we never did win a big prize on the Bonds. Just something that folks here might like to consider as an option. It is a gamble - but insurance is about gambling really. My 18 year olds are frail but holding their own . Still eating. One has Royal Canin Heptatic dry food( which we actually originally bought for the other one). . That one has Purina bleeding heart food ( tried alot including the soups) that we have to " water down" two or 3 times during the day. She drinks alot of water, particularly running water. The first cat was hit by a car twice when he was about two, so I reckon that he has 7 lives left. All the best.
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Post by kaney78 on Nov 23, 2019 7:51:21 GMT
We had to have our cat put down a few years ago. She was 10 and had suffered with kidney problems for a couple of years but it had been treated with medication. One day we came home from work and normally she'd be there to meet and greet us but on this occasion she couldn't move without being in obvious pain. We took her to the vets and after examining her he said she'd had almost complete kidney failure and there was nothing he could do. We stroked her as he gave her the fatal injection and she was audibly purring as she lost consciousness. It sounds soppy but it was a really emotional and upsetting experience for us that took us quite a while to get over. Thanks for that "D" Cats usually pass away from kidney probs. There are many people that hate cats, but I have come to like them. I was originally a "dog man". Oh cats are intelligent creatures. Science is just starting to learn about cats. A Vet told me a couple of years ago that "we" are only now starting to learn about cat behaviour.
Get a cat, it will rule your home. Get a dog and then you train it to do what you want to do.
never been a cat person till I met my current partner but hers can be very affectionate which I never realised cats could be, find them very therapeutic animals as well
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Post by Deleted on Nov 23, 2019 23:01:12 GMT
Well another day gone. She is eating like a Trogan. Two pouches scoffed today. We have the cat soup all ready for when required. I had never heard of Purina until it was mentioned on this thread. I've spent five hours driving today and guess what has been advertised on Classic FM all day? Purina cat food. It is only a reprieve, we realise that, but maybe she can get another one in two weeks time. Or could the eating build her up a bit? I doubt it. She seems to have lost control of her bladder now.... little puddles around the house. I am clinging on to the words of the vet when he said that if he thought for a second that she was in any pain or discomfort, he wouldn't let us leave his surgery.
My five hour drive did actually involve going up to Stoke. Drove back with four Wrights Meat and Tata, and a dozen oatcakes - didn't get to see the match though.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 24, 2019 7:13:47 GMT
Well another day gone. She is eating like a Trogan. Two pouches scoffed today. We have the cat soup all ready for when required. I had never heard of Purina until it was mentioned on this thread. I've spent five hours driving today and guess what has been advertised on Classic FM all day? Purina cat food. It is only a reprieve, we realise that, but maybe she can get another one in two weeks time. Or could the eating build her up a bit? I doubt it. She seems to have lost control of her bladder now.... little puddles around the house. I am clinging on to the words of the vet when he said that if he thought for a second that she was in any pain or discomfort, he wouldn't let us leave his surgery. My five hour drive did actually involve going up to Stoke. Drove back with four Wrights Meat and Tata, and a dozen oatcakes - didn't get to see the match though.
Pleased to hear that she's eating a lot better than recently. Our cat wouldn't eat the Purina food every time we tried it but she loves the Gourmet range. Your cat certainly seems to have got a second wind and I really hope she continues to scoff as much as possible. Hope you enjoy the pies and oatcakes mate !
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Post by thequietman on Nov 24, 2019 21:52:33 GMT
Well another day gone. She is eating like a Trogan. Two pouches scoffed today. We have the cat soup all ready for when required. I had never heard of Purina until it was mentioned on this thread. I've spent five hours driving today and guess what has been advertised on Classic FM all day? Purina cat food. It is only a reprieve, we realise that, but maybe she can get another one in two weeks time. Or could the eating build her up a bit? I doubt it. She seems to have lost control of her bladder now.... little puddles around the house. I am clinging on to the words of the vet when he said that if he thought for a second that she was in any pain or discomfort, he wouldn't let us leave his surgery.
My five hour drive did actually involve going up to Stoke. Drove back with four Wrights Meat and Tata, and a dozen oatcakes - didn't get to see the match though.
Hopefully good news Clem. Just a thought, the puddles may be because of the increased eating. Maybe cats' stomachs can shrink from a period of under-eating like ours? Full stomach, pressure on the bladder? I'm not an expert but our mutt pees a lot when he's eaten too much. Maybe a urinary tract infection? Her system's taken a bit of a hammering. I'm sure a quick phone call to your vet will either set your mind at ease or give a quick solution (antibiotics etc.) Btw the Wright's pies + oatcake may sound good but I doubt if Mimi's up to them just yet
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Post by somersetstokie on Nov 25, 2019 10:21:26 GMT
Oatcakes. The miracle superfood of North Staffordshire!
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Post by boothenboys1863 on Nov 25, 2019 22:46:35 GMT
We had to have our cat put down a few years ago. She was 10 and had suffered with kidney problems for a couple of years but it had been treated with medication. One day we came home from work and normally she'd be there to meet and greet us but on this occasion she couldn't move without being in obvious pain. We took her to the vets and after examining her he said she'd had almost complete kidney failure and there was nothing he could do. We stroked her as he gave her the fatal injection and she was audibly purring as she lost consciousness. It sounds soppy but it was a really emotional and upsetting experience for us that took us quite a while to get over. Gutted mate.. I’m more of a dog man myself but putting any animal down is gutting! I’ve put 3 dogs down, 2 mine 1 my sisters. When I took my sisters dog it was howling as they were injecting it, I was gutted but my niece was outside and I’m the strong uncle that nothing bothers so I couldn’t go out there upset! But it played on my mind for days!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 25, 2019 23:32:47 GMT
We had to have our cat put down a few years ago. She was 10 and had suffered with kidney problems for a couple of years but it had been treated with medication. One day we came home from work and normally she'd be there to meet and greet us but on this occasion she couldn't move without being in obvious pain. We took her to the vets and after examining her he said she'd had almost complete kidney failure and there was nothing he could do. We stroked her as he gave her the fatal injection and she was audibly purring as she lost consciousness. It sounds soppy but it was a really emotional and upsetting experience for us that took us quite a while to get over. Gutted mate.. I’m more of a dog man myself but putting any animal down is gutting! I’ve put 3 dogs down, 2 mine 1 my sisters. When I took my sisters dog it was howling as they were injecting it, I was gutted but my niece was outside and I’m the strong uncle that nothing bothers so I couldn’t go out there upset! But it played on my mind for days! I fully agree it's so upsetting. Our cat obviously trusted us to do the best for her and to hear her purring right to the end was both comforting and absolutely heart breaking at the same time. We didn't need the vet to tell us she'd gone, we just heard the purring suddenly stop. The vet gave us 10 minutes alone with her and it took that long to compose ourselves to go back out into the reception area (with her empty cat box). It took us ages to get over it and we said we wouldn't have another cat as we couldn't face going through that again. Four months later though we went to the RSPCA and got our current rescue cat.
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Post by boothenboys1863 on Nov 26, 2019 5:49:46 GMT
Gutted mate.. I’m more of a dog man myself but putting any animal down is gutting! I’ve put 3 dogs down, 2 mine 1 my sisters. When I took my sisters dog it was howling as they were injecting it, I was gutted but my niece was outside and I’m the strong uncle that nothing bothers so I couldn’t go out there upset! But it played on my mind for days! I fully agree it's so upsetting. Our cat obviously trusted us to do the best for her and to hear her purring right to the end was both comforting and absolutely heart breaking at the same time. We didn't need the vet to tell us she'd gone, we just heard the purring suddenly stop. The vet gave us 10 minutes alone with her and it took that long to compose ourselves to go back out into the reception area (with her empty cat box). It took us ages to get over it and we said we wouldn't have another cat as we couldn't face going through that again. Four months later though we went to the RSPCA and got our current rescue cat. Horrible mate! When I put my last of the two dogs down the house seemed empty and I’d never not had a dog so I’d come home from work and open the back door so the dogs could go out even though I didn’t have one it was weird! I’d also if I was eating say a sandwich I’d chuck whatever I want out the back door and the dogs would eat it and I did it a couple of time’s once they’d both gone I’d chuck my crusts out then a couple of minutes later realise we hadn’t got anything to eat it and go out to pick it up! It was gutting!
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Post by Deleted on Nov 26, 2019 23:41:52 GMT
I fully agree it's so upsetting. Our cat obviously trusted us to do the best for her and to hear her purring right to the end was both comforting and absolutely heart breaking at the same time. We didn't need the vet to tell us she'd gone, we just heard the purring suddenly stop. The vet gave us 10 minutes alone with her and it took that long to compose ourselves to go back out into the reception area (with her empty cat box). It took us ages to get over it and we said we wouldn't have another cat as we couldn't face going through that again. Four months later though we went to the RSPCA and got our current rescue cat. Horrible mate! When I put my last of the two dogs down the house seemed empty and I’d never not had a dog so I’d come home from work and open the back door so the dogs could go out even though I didn’t have one it was weird! I’d also if I was eating say a sandwich I’d chuck whatever I want out the back door and the dogs would eat it and I did it a couple of time’s once they’d both gone I’d chuck my crusts out then a couple of minutes later realise we hadn’t got anything to eat it and go out to pick it up! It was gutting! It's happened three times before with myself. The theme is though, that there is a huge gaping hole at home. The hole that the pet used to fill.
Mimi is still eating very well. The trouble is though that she seems to be losing things in other respects. She is now dribbling wee all over the place. We could cope with that, towels placed in strategic places .... But her back legs seem weak now and there is definitely a bit of a wobble there.
Now really is the time (and my wife agrees). She will take Friday off work, and (hopefully) we can get first appointment of the day at the vets. So that's it really. Waiting until Friday is ok at the moment I am sure. Should things worsen, we will get her to the vet asap.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 27, 2019 0:23:02 GMT
Horrible mate! When I put my last of the two dogs down the house seemed empty and I’d never not had a dog so I’d come home from work and open the back door so the dogs could go out even though I didn’t have one it was weird! I’d also if I was eating say a sandwich I’d chuck whatever I want out the back door and the dogs would eat it and I did it a couple of time’s once they’d both gone I’d chuck my crusts out then a couple of minutes later realise we hadn’t got anything to eat it and go out to pick it up! It was gutting! It's happened three times before with myself. The theme is though, that there is a huge gaping hole at home. The hole that the pet used to fill. Mimi is still eating very well. The trouble is though that she seems to be losing things in other respects. She is now dribbling wee all over the place. We could cope with that, towels placed in strategic places .... But her back legs seem weak now and there is definitely a bit of a wobble there. Now really is the time (and my wife agrees). She will take Friday off work, and (hopefully) we can get first appointment of the day at the vets. So that's it really. Waiting until Friday is ok at the moment I am sure. Should things worsen, we will get her to the vet asap.
Sorry to hear it's finally reached this point Clem. From your description it sounds like Mimi is deteriorating and it does seem to be the right thing to do however upsetting it will be for you and your wife. You've both done the utmost that you could in caring for your cat and you wouldn't want her to suffer or be in any pain or discomfort. All the best at the vet's mate.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2019 19:20:45 GMT
We took Mimi to the vet this morning.
I think that we did make the right decision last time, when she had that last steroid injection. During those last ten days or so, she ate quite well, and certainly gained a bit of weight. She seemed content and happy.
This morning at about 7am, I felt her jump on the bed, wander round a bit (on the bed - walking all over me) and settle down. Purring away. Allowing her in our bedroom has been a recent concession, she normally sleeps in the kitchen. Anyway, I don't know what happened next but by 9am her back legs had stopped working totally. Even with that, she still seemed content.
At this point, we knew the time had arrived.
It is very easy to "pat yourself on the back" and say that you gave the animal a great life etc. I see it more as a tribute to that cat that I can say that she gave us fourteen years of fun and friendship. The house really does feel very empty at the moment.
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Post by Etain Tur-Mukan on Nov 30, 2019 19:28:17 GMT
We took Mimi to the vet this morning. I think that we did make the right decision last time, when she had that last steroid injection. During those last ten days or so, she ate quite well, and certainly gained a bit of weight. She seemed content and happy. This morning at about 7am, I felt her jump on the bed, wander round a bit (on the bed - walking all over me) and settle down. Purring away. Allowing her in our bedroom has been a recent concession, she normally sleeps in the kitchen. Anyway, I don't know what happened next but by 9am her back legs had stopped working totally. Even with that, she still seemed content. At this point, we knew the time had arrived. It is very easy to "pat yourself on the back" and say that you gave the animal a great life etc. I see it more as a tribute to that cat that I can say that she gave us fourteen years of fun and friendship. The house really does feel very empty at the moment. My thoughts are with you and your Mrs matey :(
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2019 19:39:31 GMT
We took Mimi to the vet this morning. I think that we did make the right decision last time, when she had that last steroid injection. During those last ten days or so, she ate quite well, and certainly gained a bit of weight. She seemed content and happy. This morning at about 7am, I felt her jump on the bed, wander round a bit (on the bed - walking all over me) and settle down. Purring away. Allowing her in our bedroom has been a recent concession, she normally sleeps in the kitchen. Anyway, I don't know what happened next but by 9am her back legs had stopped working totally. Even with that, she still seemed content. At this point, we knew the time had arrived. It is very easy to "pat yourself on the back" and say that you gave the animal a great life etc. I see it more as a tribute to that cat that I can say that she gave us fourteen years of fun and friendship. The house really does feel very empty at the moment. I had thought about you and Mimi yesterday and wondered how things were going to be honest. I'm so sorry that the end has finally arrived but from what you've said it has seemed to have reached a natural conclusion. Maybe Mimi's actions this morning were her way of letting you know the time was right. I do know what you mean about the house feeling empty Clem. It's always a sad time and we felt exactly the same when our last cat went. All the best to you and your wife mate !
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Post by somersetstokie on Nov 30, 2019 19:50:44 GMT
Sincere condolences Clem. We've all seemingly lived through and shared your crisis and feel your loss.
Cats are absolutely amazing creatures, whatever one's personal opinion, and I have no doubt that she will be desperately missed.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 1, 2019 4:17:29 GMT
How can such a small creature leave such a hole? I've lost dogs before (an Afghan once - quite a large dog), this has been worse than anything before.
I am widowed. My wife is divorced.
My wife had four children, many cats and dogs. The dogs were mainly Labs, but did include an Old English Sheepdog. Her life must have been total mayhem! In her spare time she ran a Girl Guide group. (This all probably explains why she can tend to be a bit "bossy") This death has floored her also. It really must be an "age" thing.
Anyway - we might get a budgie. Teach it to talk - it wont have to worry about a cat ....
That's it now anyway - thread closed .
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2020 5:32:52 GMT
Well here I am again. My wife phoned Andy to let him know that we had lost Mimi. Andy runs the cattery that has looked after our cats whenever we go away on holiday. After expressing his most sincere condolences, you will never guess what he did next ..... he just happened to have this four month old kitten .... you can guess the rest. We picked her up this morning. She is a British Short Hair (lilac). A pedigree cat - wow, we have never in our lives had one of these. All of our cats in our lifetime, have been moggies. As it turns out Andy has sold his cattery, and is very soon moving to Spain to retire, and saw us doing him a favour taking this cat. We haven't given her a name yet, but my wife seems very set on "Lilah" - sounds good to me - Delilah shortened.
Mmm, we will be keeping this cat indoors i think. She is an absolute beauty! Not that we have seen that much of her today - as always with new cats, she has been hiding away mostly.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2020 6:36:50 GMT
Lucky Lilah (pic please), she has certainly found a loving home - sounds like it was destined to happen ! Hope everything works out well with your new "master" (mistress !) and that she settles in quickly. She'll soon be ruling the roost no doubt. You've got your lovely memories of Mimi safely locked away, so now it's time to enjoy your new "adventure" with Lilah. Every cat certainly has it's own distinct characteristics - have you noticed any interesting (or annoying) traits with her as yet ? Do you think Lilah has noticed any with you and your wife ? Good luck to you all !
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Post by dutchstokie on Jan 10, 2020 7:52:11 GMT
Well here I am again. My wife phoned Andy to let him know that we had lost Mimi. Andy runs the cattery that has looked after our cats whenever we go away on holiday. After expressing his most sincere condolences, you will never guess what he did next ..... he just happened to have this four month old kitten .... you can guess the rest. We picked her up this morning. She is a British Short Hair (lilac). A pedigree cat - wow, we have never in our lives had one of these. All of our cats in our lifetime, have been moggies. As it turns out Andy has sold his cattery, and is very soon moving to Spain to retire, and saw us doing him a favour taking this cat. We haven't given her a name yet, but my wife seems very set on "Lilah" - sounds good to me - Delilah shortened. Mmm, we will be keeping this cat indoors i think. She is an absolute beauty! Not that we have seen that much of her today - as always with new cats, she has been hiding away mostly.
Good luck with Lilah fella….. Our oldest cat Diddle is on her last legs now…… Its difficult to see her struggling to get upstairs and she doesnt like me picking her up now Gonna crush me when she goes
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Post by bathstoke on Jan 10, 2020 8:02:51 GMT
It’s reassuring to know that in Cats, James Corden is even able to lick his own @&$ehole🐱👅🍩
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Post by thequietman on Jan 10, 2020 12:34:52 GMT
Great stuff, Clem. Superb name too. All the best to you, Mrs Clem and your new mistress.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2020 20:45:03 GMT
Great stuff, Clem. Superb name too. All the best to you, Mrs Clem and your new mistress. Thank you. We have settled on the name Lilah. The funny thing is that my wife is a Brummie and has no interest in Stoke FC at all (other than it is her husband's team). She doesn't really follow any team, but maybe Villa catches her interest from time to time. Pure coincidence about the name.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2020 20:58:48 GMT
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Post by cheeesfreeex on Jan 10, 2020 21:07:46 GMT
Wow what a beaut... I'll echo the 'great name' sentiments... What an adventure... kittens are ace... My old lad, Claude hits 20 soon... Keep threatening to trade him in... Won't happen... Best of luck... I think it's true cats find you...
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2020 21:16:14 GMT
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Post by thequietman on Jan 13, 2020 12:15:03 GMT
She's just too cute for words. Nice one Clem.
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Post by chigstoke on Jan 13, 2020 15:38:41 GMT
Has to be said doesn't it, Lilah is absolutely gorgeous Clem, she really is.
Here's to many cat adventures with her
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